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Does anyone actually like anal?

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Kuman · 16/01/2016 20:57

Am struggling to see how myself. Haven't done it but came close once. If I did think I might suspend my usual size criteria...but am mostly interested if this is anything anyone female actually enjoys. Friends are universal in seeing it as sthg men want and women sometimes put up with.

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PrimeDirective · 16/01/2016 21:40

Yes I do like it, I like it a lot. Not trying to be cool or suggest that everyone should try it because I don't think it's for everyone.
I have a collection of anal toys that I use as much when masturbating on my own as much as I do with my DH.

PrimeDirective · 16/01/2016 21:42

It's only likely to cause damage if you are not careful.
Childbirth is a far bigger cause of continence problems.

CFSsucks · 16/01/2016 21:45

I've never tried it and never intend to. Had damage after DC1 birth and have had to be checked in that area, cannot imagine it ever being a turn on.

MadamCroquette · 16/01/2016 21:45

OMG no no no no ugh.

That's a no! :o

I haven't tried it so I admit it's possible it could turn out to be fab, but I don't ever want to try it, it's my idea of misery and horror. I'm so glad I've never been with anyone who's wanted me to because they would have been sadly let down. (Or maybe I have it written on my forehead or something, because no one ever has asked, yet from what I hear 99% of men are gagging for it.)

It's always confused me a bit - why do men want it? If so many men want it, couldn't they be more open to the idea of just shagging each other?

I don't look down on anyone who does like it though. Whatever. I had a gay friend who described it to me in TMI detail and he seemed v enthusiastic (though maybe that put me off even more...)

MadamCroquette · 16/01/2016 21:45

The stoma story has not helped!

Alisvolatpropiis · 16/01/2016 21:47

What is a stoma? Confused

SelfLoathing · 16/01/2016 21:49

a gay male friend (prreviously married to a woman and came out late-ish in life)said. the secret to enjoying it as receipient is being relaxed and this takes practice to not tense up. what he said. no idea if true but makes sense.

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Kuman · 16/01/2016 21:53

When I almost did it, was a "slip up" I think genuinely unintentional. According to exbf who did it once wirh smone before me can be painful for the man "giving" as well, due to general tightness of the entrance combined in his case with a tight foreskin.

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MadamCroquette · 16/01/2016 21:53

Alis it's an opening on your abdomen which they divert the bowel out through, so you can use a colostomy bag.

MadamCroquette · 16/01/2016 21:54

disclaimer not technical definition. But you get the picture

Shakey15000 · 16/01/2016 21:57

It's not for me. Tried it a couple of times but only when really turned on, but even then, it's too uncomfortable. I think it's more the thought of it than the actual deed.

LilacSpunkMonkey · 16/01/2016 22:03

Sorry about the 'cool' comment. I don't even believe in that 'cool wives' crap so I don't know why I said that.

I'm hoping to have scared off the perverts though.

As you were.

chibsortig · 16/01/2016 22:04

Its not for me never tried it and dont intend to. I dont like the sound of it.
I dont swallow either but i do like sex Grin and lots of it.

Missyaggravation · 16/01/2016 23:29

I only like it when I'm extremely relaxed drunk , also not with men who have a bit of girth, ouchy

SinisterBumFacedCat · 16/01/2016 23:39

I went through an anal phase years ago with an ex but these days I'm really not up for it.

I do swallow though, Blush and I'm not at all cool.

ALaughAMinute · 16/01/2016 23:39

I don't think anyone has ever asked me which is a good thing as I find the very idea of it a turn off.

AlmaMartyr · 16/01/2016 23:43

I've never fancied it at all. Luckily DH is totally uninterested in it as well.

I have friends that enjoy it though.

imwithspud · 16/01/2016 23:55

It's always confused me a bit - why do men want it? If so many men want it, couldn't they be more open to the idea of just shagging each other?

I've always wondered this Grin and also why men aren't put off by the potential of getting poo on their penis, my dp hates when we have vaginal sex and he happens to get a bit of blood on him (if I'm at the end of beginning of a period and I don't realize for example). So I don't understand why he likes the idea of anal. Surely shit would be even worse to deal with??

I don't swallow either, I can't bear to have it in my mouth at all. Grim.

BertieBotts · 17/01/2016 00:07

I am really squeamish about semen in my mouth, actually. I don't even like pre cum. I can't bear it, it's like thin, but just as slimy snot. The texture is worse than anything but I also find the actual substance is extremely irritating to my throat and if I even get a tiny bit in my mouth I'll have a sore throat for ages and nothing clears it.

Ughnotagain · 17/01/2016 00:12

Not for me. I've tried it and wanted to enjoy it but could never quite relax into it enough to get past it just feeling like pooing!

Seeyounearertime · 17/01/2016 00:16

I know you said female perspectives but....
Both my GF and I enjoy giving and receiving.

make of that what you will.

silverdrawers · 17/01/2016 00:21

I like it but only very occasionally. Need lots of stimulation first and prefer it with a condom so I don't get any random poo on cock thoughts mid shag Blush Grin

PoppySeedRoll · 17/01/2016 00:24

I like the idea of trying it but whenever we've tried to put it into practice it feels excruciating. I have ibs which probably doesn't help. DH quite keen to get his brown wings but knows it's a no goer for me.

GraysAnalogy · 17/01/2016 00:26

What annoys me about threads like these is the patronising 'cool women' posts. Just because YOU don't like it doesn't mean other women can't and that if they do they want to please men. It's incredibly offensive to suggest women exploring sexually is just to be a 'cool wife'

One of my boyfriends was into it. I tried and no it wasn't for me and I told him to get away from me.

Me and my now partner tried and it was an extremely pleasing and intimate thing. We went slow, and it felt good. I'm now a fan of it but not often because I irrationally worry about the sphincter Blush

GraysAnalogy · 17/01/2016 00:28

On another note I find it really hard to believe a person needed a stoma because of anal sex

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