Does anyone actually like anal?

[Kuman]

Am struggling to see how myself. Haven't done it but came close once. If I did think I might suspend my usual size criteria...but am mostly interested if this is anything anyone female actually enjoys. Friends are universal in seeing it as sthg men want and women sometimes put up with.

Damned fine question. You'll get loads of MNers on now, claiming that they love it.
Me, I told the then-husband if he tried it I'd see him in court.

Mostly no.

Also swallowing. God no.

I can't make any comment about swallowing. Dd reads MN sometimes.

Awaits the 'cool' women now.

And the usual perverts who post on this board, occasionally in Relationships and nowhere else on the site.

A friend I once had did. But other than her, I think it is a resounding no.

Why do you have to be a cool woman to like something? Why is liking something slightly unusual derided. If men were talking about this there wouldn't be comments like wait for the cool men to turn up typed in a sarcy way.

I don't talk about sex on MN, don't want to be someone's wank fodder.

Well I wouldn't knock it as I've never tried it, but I've also got no intentions of. Proud anal virgin here. .
Each to their own l guess.

I don't think I'm cool, but I do like it.
Only prob is my dh doesn't really like it. Wish he did really, but hey ho.
We have done it in the past, but infrequent now.

No chance..... I have a Barbie bum (sewn up)....

There's nothing cool or uncool about likeing or disliking it.
It's whatever floats your boat.

Yes. I used to, until childbirth ruined my bum hole. I have good friends who do. Most who like it do it only occasionally, it's not an every day thing. It can be brilliant. I'm not a cool girl, I don't do loads of stuff that others do and I don't care. But bum sex can feel great.

Ok well as I thought a niche interest. Fortunately apart from one chancer noone has expressed any interest since

I did it once, it was meh, okay in parts but mostly uncomfortable and it felt weird - dp really liked it. We were drunk, and we had poppers (and lube obviously) to 'help' things along. I doubt I'll ever do it again, much to dp's disappointment.

Had an ex who used to try if he thought I was drunk enough. I had serious conversation when sober about how it WAS NOT ok with me. He persisted. End of relationship.

Yup quite like it (and butt plugs and other toys/kinky stuff). DOn't like swallowing at all though.

Ooh no it's not for me. Tried it once (kind of by accident), won't be doing it again

When I say 'mostly no' I meant that most women do not relish anal, but that obviously there will be some women who do.
I did not mean that I mostly disliked anal, thereby inferring that I can tolerate it sometimes. Not so. It's an absolute hell no from me.

Of course many women don't even come with PIV so the general preference against PIA isn't a surprise in that context.

Well they might be able to come with PIV if they had a finger popped up their bum

Yes I do, actually. TMI post follows. I never thought I would like it but after some exploring in the general area went well decided to try. I was in control and even the first time it was good. It made me cry in a good way really intense.

Very, very explosive orgasms for me. It has to be combined with clitoral stimulation to be any use, though. Otherwise it just feels like you're pooing. I also need to be extremely turned on to begin with. And I'm quite certain that if I'd tried it with anyone less communicative or that I trusted less (I know, 100%, DH would stop at the slightest signal) I wouldn't have enjoyed it. A couple of times, even, it's started out okay and then suddenly it's like my body has gone "NOPE!" and then it's completely game over, so it's not something to play around with. And I am a bit worried about the risk of injury so I don't like to do it very often. But yep - occasionally, at the right moment, with the right props, it can be very very good. I have no idea if it works for everyone the same way.

My bestie likes it as much, if bit more, than standard PIV. She has no reason to lie to me!
I've tried it. Does nothing for me. Like having a big poo the wrong way.
Luckily DH isn't a fan either.

Bit = not. Thanks autocorrect!

Bertie

Yep, works for me the same way
I don't think I'd like it from cold though, ouch, and not much fun on it's own.

i knew someone who ended up with a stoma after wild anal sex caused rectal damage.....so no thanks!