Do you orgasm everytime you have sex

[dustarr73]

I was just wondering,i dont.It doesnt bother me but was wondering about everyone else.

Not every time but most of the time

Yes, usually twice.

Oh yes absolutely. Several times

I do probably around 90% of the time. Doesn't bother me if I don't sometimes though.

Nope. I find it very difficult to reach orgasm. It doesn't bother me too much because I know I can.

It's also worth noting I'm a carer, exhausted and stressed a lot of the time and don't sleep very well which I know impacts on it all so I don't give myself a hard time. Plus I have a vibrator.

Nope

I think redglitter may be teasing?

No I don't not every time. Depends on what we are doing....

Never when I slept with men, but I always climax with women often more than once.

Nope :(

Yes, it's very rare if I don't :)

I would be pissed off if I didn't have an orgasm. If he's going to have one then why shouldn't I?

If you want to have an orgasm you have to first learn how to do it yourself and then show your man how to do it. Don't let him get away with not giving you an orgasm.

Yes, every time, usually more than once.

Yes :)

ALaughAMinute i know how to give myself an orgasm he does too.

Sometimes all i want is sex and not an orgasm.

Most of the time I do. If I don't it's because I'm not relaxed enough and there hasn't been enough foreplay.

I think if you're happy then it doesn't really matter?

Some people can orgasm even if the sex isn't very good and vise versa.

Never have. Not one single time.

DH makes sure I do. If I don't, it's because I'm not that fussed and I tell him not to bother.

No not every time.

ALaughAMinute really? it isn't all about the finish and I wouldn't want to put the pressure on myself or the man I'm with to give me an orgasm when I know my body extremely well; been giving myself an orgasm since '99 after all.

Its not a very helpful thing to say when women struggle to orgasm for many reasons inc abuse, medical conditions, shame about their own bodies, traumatic births, pregnancy fear (this is big one for me due to repeat miscarriages. Best sex was with a man who couldn't have kids because that fear wasn't there at all) some medications even impact a woman's ability to orgasm.

I enjoy sex. I just struggle to orgasm and the last thing I am going to do is put pressure on myself. I can orgasm alone sometimes in 5 mins sometimes it takes 45. Just like with a partner it can happen quickly and leave them stunned or take a while/never happen. That's just me and probably a large percentage of women will have similar experiences.

With a partner it takes longer to get into the whole rhythm, being comfortable with each other to really let go especially if you have any of the difficulties mentioned above or are even just nervous.

If you've been together for a number of years achieving orgasm every time would be easier, not guaranteed, than a new couple who are still learning about each other and what gets them off.

Flumplet Do you want to change that? If you do and can get the courage to talk to your GP or even someone at relate they may be able to offer you help If you want it :)

Do you all mean you do just from having sex, or are you talking about a bit of manual help too
If you all orgasm from piv alone I'm very jealous!

Riding for me it's from penetrative sex only and can have many after the first one.

Every time. At least twice.

Betty, it isn't all about the finish for you, but it's almost all about the finish for me. I guess we are all different in that respect.

As for women who have medical conditions or struggle to achieve orgasm because they have been abused, that is another matter entirely. the OP asked us if we have an orgasm every time we have sex and I answered the question.

Im not talking medical or abuse.For me foreplay and a good ride[sorry to be straight] are more important.If i want to come its a bonus.But i dont put myself under pressure to orgasm.