Anyone tried a MMF threesome or DP?

[naughtyjezebel]

Hi I am planning a MMF threesome with my DP....and also considering trying the other kind of DP (ahem)

This is the No 1 favourite sexual fantasy of both myself and himself.

We have previously enjoyed a foursome with a couple I know and in fact we have both previously had threesome experiences before we met each other. He has suggested that we could try a MMF threesome with a friend of his from overseas, when the chap comes to visit. I very much like this idea as I have wanted to try it for years

So the desire is mutual, we are both comfortable with the idea, no one is pressuring the other etc etc. In fact the foursome we did together was pretty amazing and made us closer, as its something we both have a mutual interest in and neither of us have had a relationship before, where the other partner actually shared our taste for this kind of thing.

Can anyone tell me about their experience of MMF and in particular, has anyone tried and achieved double penetration? I really want to try this but am interested to know what it "feels like" physically before I take the errr plunge so to speak. I can do the MMF experience with or without trying DP, as its up to me, but want to find a bit more about the mechanics of it before I do so.

Thanks

Wellthatstornit - yes I agree with Eekaman its great that this naughty wee activity has enabled you to love yourself as you are. A couple of friends of mine who were strippers years ago said something similar - they went form a position of zero confidence to a point where they actually realized they were gorgeous, when they worked briefly as dancers. They found out that a lot of men do find them very hot!

Its funny, being with bi women has increased my confidence in the same way. I hate being naked in front of other people and am amazed that a woman and guy can both lust after me lol

Soconfused I am the same as your dp re the privacy bit. No one apart from my dp knows that I do these naughty activities, I do them far away from here and the couples I met have the same rule. One of the men is a high profile local business man and one of the ladies is a teacher!! So we all keep schtumm. I am ok about dps friends overseas knowing because they don't know anyone in this country apart from him.

I have a swinger neighbour here who often tells me about his adventures with his dp/lovers and they have no idea that I am up to the same thing, because I won't discuss it with anyone lol, even if they do similar things. Loose lips sink ships and all that

I am intrigued about the whole idea of having other lovers, as you do. I cannot get over the jealousy thing, I admire people who can do this without feeling insecure. Did you have to "learn" to not feel jealous about each other's other lovers, or were you always cool about it? For me, its strictly - same room, with me present, everything agreed beforehand etc or else I get a bit paranoid

Eekaman lol at MN established procedures! heh heh

To be fair dp didn't beak any rules because we had never made any at that point, apart from the fact that he had agreed that I could play with couples without him, so he said he genuinely felt that what he was doing was similar. Like yourself, he said that I had had lots of liaisons and got loads of offers, whereas he had only had the one chance lol!!! He said "I wish I was a woman who looked like you so I could get lots of offers of sex". His view was that I was upset about him doing it once, whereas he had been cool about me doing it many times.

You are right, I think maybe I need to tell him why it makes me feel insecure. If he had swung with a happy couple I would have been cool about it. I think its the fact that she is a single woman which freaks me out. I am afraid she's gonna steal my man and all that - cue Dolly Parton

I think maybe I need to gently ask him if he is happy with our new "no playing alone" rule that we agreed, because I now have a situation that whenever he goes back home to visit his folks, I will be worried that he might hook up with this woman. I am already getting worried about Christmas/New Year, because I know he will be going home for that period.

The guy I went out with before this dp cheated on me, which is why I feel suspicious and find it hard to trust that a guy is actually telling the truth.

So do come along Jezebel :) Do you have a news update for us yet?

Hmm thanks for asking. We had our MMF 3sum planned for 27 November, but....unfortunately DP and I had a row the day before and so it did not happen. His friend is now back home overseas

To be honest I think the "tension" of the forthcoming event was partly to blame for the row ie. if we had both been in a normal day to day relaxed frame of mind, we would not have had a row about something silly. I was certainly feeling a bit nervous and DP was a bit hyper, with anticipation.

Plus, when I met his friend, I did not find him particularly attractive I have to say. lol so I haven't missed much.

Can't help but wonder what it would have been like though

Will have to await another opportunity I guess

Shame but sounds like it was for the best. Another opportunity will come along I'm sure, maybe when you are not expecting it!

Ah well, sounds like this event wasn't meant to have been the one for you Jezebel.

And as confused says, another opportunity will come along one day when things suit you all better. Good luck in your quest :)

Hmmm well we tried it last night. One of the couples who I had met before visited, so we tried to do dp. Unfortunately, the other guy hates condoms and lost his stiffy while trying to get the condom on. So we were all ready, dp and I "in position" and the other guy got stage fright oooops!!

Shame because the other guy loves anal and had done that with me (because his girlfriend won't), so it seemed like a good match and a potential good fit. His "girth" is fairly narrow.

Slightly frustrating, but a nice time was still had by all

Dp is now inviting another friend from overseas to visit hee hee

Rock and roll Jezebel!

And where was the other fella's partner? Couldn't she have helped out? Glad you had fun though, hey, pop over to the HUGE swinging thread and put your opinions in.

It's very tricky to get the right combination of people for this I think. My OH and my lover both want to have an MMF with me. But I think the politics of having both of them in the same scene would be very awkward. I think I'll have to find a guest male for the occasion!

Hey Eekaman where is the huge swing thread??

Soconfused who is your OH...I mean what does that abbreviation mean. Yeah ikwym....the chemistry has to be right and zero baggage in the room I think

Looks like I might get my first mmf 3sum next weekend! And the other guy is very keen to try dp too. Whoo hoo

Hurray-hope it works out this time! Still haven't given it a go myself. But with the right guys,why not (OH=other half by the way, in this case my long term partner)

Good luck!