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Much younger man

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onemorerose · 06/08/2015 00:46

The sexual chemistry is amazing
Pros; he is gorgeous and made me so horny with a kiss
Cons; he is 14 years younger

What should I do??

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Verynaughtymummy · 09/08/2015 19:52

Missed = kissed.
Maybe auto correct is trying to tell me something Wink

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onemorerose · 10/08/2015 07:45

Well he didn't show in the end. He sent me a half assed apology and excuse the next day to which I haven't replied yet. What a disappointment after all that build up. Wish I had something better to report back.

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scatterthenuns · 10/08/2015 07:49

I wouldn't bother OP, sounds like he is a young lad looking for a 'I'm a big man' story to tell his mates but chickened out when things got real.

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onemorerose · 10/08/2015 08:09

Yes I did wonder if he had chickened out, or that he had fallen asleep as I know he had already been out for a couple of drinks. So should I not reply to that message at all?

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Hellionandfriends · 10/08/2015 08:21

If you still want him as a fuck buddy, maybe text 'no worries, maybe next week then'

Hellionandfriends · 10/08/2015 08:22

It's sounds vague but interested and not too invested

TRexingInAsda · 10/08/2015 20:11

Maybe he's a bit intimidated at the prospect of actually shagging you - he'll see you as more experienced, and someone who'll know if he's not up to much in the bedroom!

Maybe he can try again in a few years when he's better more self-assured and confident.

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onemorerose · 10/08/2015 22:24

Yeah I'll just tell myself that anyway Grin it's weird how he went totally cold. Ah well onwards and upwards!

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travellinglighter · 10/08/2015 22:45

Cold feet I suspect. Us men are such delicate little flowers really. I know I am.

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onemorerose · 10/08/2015 23:02

Interesting to hear a mans point of view on it. But I have to say I now really want it to happen Sad

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ChilliAndMint · 10/08/2015 23:28

If he were say 28 and you 42 I'd say go for it, but in reality he is still a kid.

bodenbiscuit · 11/08/2015 00:11

20 is not a kid...

travellinglighter · 11/08/2015 00:50

20 is a kid. Women mature faster. At 20 he’s struggling to keep his inner child under cover.

bodenbiscuit · 11/08/2015 04:36

I think it depends on the person. But what I'm saying is that it's not morally wrong for the op to consider. However, from reading back it does seem that maybe this one is not really mature enough.

scatterthenuns · 11/08/2015 07:33

20 is not a kid?

Have you met a 20 year old boy? They were too childish for me when I was 20!

BastardGoDarkly · 11/08/2015 10:57

I've just turned 42, and honestly NaughtyMummy Hmm your story made me cringe. I've got a 20 year old nephew, and he's a BOY! he really is, they're just shy of teenage after all.

bodenbiscuit · 11/08/2015 11:04

Oh yes, they are childish. But they are not actually children that's all I meant.

bodenbiscuit · 11/08/2015 11:05

I had a fling with a 21 year old when I was 28 and he was not childish at all. I agree that most are though.

lemonade30 · 11/08/2015 12:10

I met my OH when he was 20 and I was 26.
He was in every way preferable to my 37 year old exH Smile

bodenbiscuit · 11/08/2015 12:55

Yes well to be fair my 68 year old father still acts like a child. I think some of them are actually never destined to grow up.

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onemorerose · 11/08/2015 16:30

I don't think he's that childish but to be fair I barely know him. Anyway he has messaged asking for another chance so we will have to see!

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Viviennemary · 11/08/2015 16:38

I think he is a bit too young for you tbh.

Verynaughtymummy · 12/08/2015 16:42

I agree they may not be the most mature but if I'm honest my 45 year old DH is so childish it's unreal. In fact I dare say he is more immature than my 19 year old fling. As the others said as long as you know what you're getting yourself into, you are both adults.
I've not regretted it so far and don't think I will if I'm honest, Sorry if others don't like it.

BastardGoDarkly · 12/08/2015 21:35

Why don't you leave your incredibly childish dh instead of cheating on him then?

SevenAteNine · 13/08/2015 01:56

I'm going to out myself as a man. And furthermore, a man who was once 20, and did the exact thing this boy did with you, OP. In fact, I arranged to meet then bottled it with quite a few older women.

Despite what they say, very few 20 year old boys are self assured and mature enough to not bottle it when they meet a proper woman.

Come back in a couple of years.

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