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Much younger man

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onemorerose · 06/08/2015 00:46

The sexual chemistry is amazing
Pros; he is gorgeous and made me so horny with a kiss
Cons; he is 14 years younger

What should I do??

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mrsdavidbowie · 06/08/2015 13:37

Great advice fromtoffee Grin

BIWI · 06/08/2015 13:39

The rule?!

What rule?

Go for it. Have fun. Enjoy yourself.

Envy
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onemorerose · 06/08/2015 13:46

Haha it needs to be done toffeeboffin. We are currently messaging to see when we could meet up, he is up for tonight but I'm planning to go out Saturday night so will have to wait until then.

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pocketsaviour · 06/08/2015 15:26

I'm worried he will tell his friends he is shagging some old lady

Surely he's more likely to phrase it as "hot MILF"? Grin

Go for it!

Nevergoingtolearn · 06/08/2015 16:14

I dabble in online dating and get quite a few 20 year olds message me ( I am 33 ), there seems to be quite a few that like an older lady, I'm too scared to go there as I'm used to older but I think you should go for it ( sounds like your going to anyway ), enjoy, and don't forget to come back and tell us how it went Wink

SnoogyWoo · 06/08/2015 16:41

Go for it. It will be as hard as a broom handle!

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 06/08/2015 18:21

If you like him and he likes you, and as long as both parties are legal then what exactly are the cons.
If he were 14 years older than you would you be starting a thread. I think I can confidently say, of course not.
Happy shagging. Don't do anything. I wouldn't do, which doesn't leave much Grin

Happytuesdays99 · 06/08/2015 20:13

My experience of young men when I was dating was not great but they recover quickly so prepare for a shagathon! The quality was always debatable though!!

toffeeboffin · 06/08/2015 20:50

Grin at broom handle!

So you are meeting up with him sat PM? Does he have any friends? (for me, not you!)

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onemorerose · 06/08/2015 21:29

Loving the broom handle Grin we have arranged to meet on Saturday night but now the thing that I was going to has been cancelled. I've no other excuse to go out if you know what I mean so I don't know what to do. I'm excited for a shaggathon with the broom handle (that sounds so bad). I've told him the thing we were planning to go to has been cancelled so I'll see what he comes back with.

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onemorerose · 06/08/2015 21:30

Toffeeboffin I will of course enquire if he has any equally hot friends for you Grin

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Pippin8 · 06/08/2015 22:22

I would totally go for it. Life is too short. Enjoy. And report back obviously!

MaryBerrysEyelashes · 06/08/2015 22:29

he wants a mother i bet

nowttodowithme · 06/08/2015 22:33

Go for it, if he treats you well and makes you laugh who cares about the age gap.

Has he got any single friends, I'm 46 though ... Wink

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onemorerose · 06/08/2015 22:45

Oh god see that idea that he wants a mother really turns me. But I don't think he is looking someone to take care of him if that's what you mean. I will definitely report back, but it might be longer than I thought.

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0pheliaBalls · 06/08/2015 23:11

I met DH when I was 30 and he was 19. He proposed five days later and we've been married for 12 years now Smile

Go for it. Just make sure you both want the same thing from it to avoid any hurt later. Have fun!

travellinglighter · 07/08/2015 00:19

I have a friend who just turned 21 and he’s proposed to his girlfriend and she’s 34. They are very happy.

toffeeboffin · 07/08/2015 18:50

OK, so now both me and nowttodowithme need to know if he has any mates.. Could start a mumsnet MILF club Blush

BastardGoDarkly · 07/08/2015 19:00

Hmmmm, small village, no one must know sounds unlikely though Confused

I'd steer well clear personally.

Hope it works out for you though :)

ThoseAwfulCurtains · 07/08/2015 19:02

Ophelia's comment about checking that you both want the same thing from it sounds wise to me. Seems like there are lots of 20 year olds looking for more than just a quick shag given the stories on this threadSmile

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onemorerose · 08/08/2015 09:29

Yes sounds like we will have to have some sort of chat about it. But I think that's something that needs to be done face to face.

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BastardGoDarkly · 08/08/2015 13:14

Have you done any face to face chatting? Just by the way you say his messages make you laugh, do you actually know him at all?

AyeAmarok · 08/08/2015 14:50

Ah go for it. Live a little!

Even if it's just a great shag, it can be one of your rocking chair stories in decades to come!

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onemorerose · 08/08/2015 14:58

No I barely know him, we have chatted face to face once when we first met and kissed that night, second when we bumped into each other but that was very brief. But I don't see how that really matters?
Have messaged him saying that I'm heading out tonight but he hasn't replied yet!

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Verynaughtymummy · 09/08/2015 19:51

Oh one more!!!! I could say I'm in your situation except that it's much worse Confused..
I am older (41), he is 19 and I am currently very unhappily married and trying to get out. I do have a 2 year old which makes it harder!
I'm ashamed to admit we've missed and "played" a bit and the whole thing was amazing. So I'm the worst person to say this but please go for it!!

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