Does your OH mind going down on you? (possible tmi warning)

[submissivelass]

My dear DP does not like going down at all. He utterly dreads it. He has said it's because he doesn't like the way fanjos taste or smell. He also did not like doing it with previous partners. I am a very clean lady and have no issues in that department. In fairness, he doesn't ask for BJs, which is good because I find them boring. Would rather just shag than have to give one.

DH can take it or leave it. I feel much the same way about blow jobs. There are other things we would both rather do.

It's dp's favourite thing. He'd rather do that than anything else.

Also, I don't think your tmi warning is necessary given this is the sex topic

He does it, I can take it or leave it! But he always looses his erection when he does it so he can't enjoy it that much!

He loves it. I love it.

Not wanting to go down would be a deal breaker

im sure losing his erection doesnt mean he doesnt like it. More that hes not getting physical stimulation

He says he loves doing it, although we don't do it as often as I'd maybe like, although sometimes I don't want it when he tries to so maybe that's why. I do love it when he does it though.

I don't return the favour as often as I maybe should, as I'd say I don't love doing it... But then when I do it to him I get very turned on, so maybe I do actually like doing it more than I think

He loves it. If he didn't it wouldn't necessarly matter to me, I can live without it.

Does he make up for it in other ways? E.g. Lots of touching?

Oh I love it! Giving and receiving. May even prefer giving, though I'm with a woman now. I didn't like giving BJ's at all!

I feel it's a shame for you and your OP. I personally think it's the most erotic part of sex. BUT,if you're not bothered and neither is he, I guess it doesn't really matter.

How's your sex life apart from that?

Oh and to answer your question, no my dp doesn't mind at all. She loves it as much as I do.

My DH prefers it to me. I only really enjoy it when I am fresh from the shower.

My ex does it, I have no idea if he enjoys it but he voluntarily gets down there so he can't mind too much. I don't enjoy giving BJs but I know how much he enjoys them so I am happy to do it.

The guy I sleep with loves doing it (he's always asking me if he can do it) and I love going down on him. Generally, I prefer a good 69 session to penetrative sex, it's one of our favourite things to do (and I have my strongest orgasms from that). I find oral sex a lot more intimate than PIV - if I'm pissed off or upset with a guy I can still do PIV but I would find it a lot harder to give oral or have him go down on me.

My DP can't get enough... I'd we have sex without it starting with oral it feels wrong somehow. I hate giving bjs though and only do it every now and then.

Well I was thinking about this the other day - he used to do it all the time. But since having a baby he has never done it since.... But I guess we have lost our kinkiness since the birth.

I only go down on him if I'm VERY drunk and happy - preferably in a hotel

I can't stand it, it's probably a hard limit and one of my very few. He does ask to sometimes as he likes it but it makes me cringe all over, I can't relax and enjoy at all.

Does anyone else not like receiving?

I'm happy to give him oral though, no problem at all.

i dont like receiving 247 - as I am always too paranoid about how I smell / taste and if he dislikes it.

Dp would spend all day doing it if he could. He likes to request I turn around, I'm sure he'd rather that than than standard piv any day. I still find it slightly difficult to relax and let go sometimes, but it's something he enjoys.

Im male and I love it. Similar to Dexters DP, its my favourite thing above all else, and I dont worry if its not reciprocated (although probably is about 75% of the time). My DP has asked me about it before, and I think it might be a deal breaker if I couldnt do it.

Late typo correction * I feel it's a shame for you and your DP

I havnt met a man that doesn't like it, some seem to like it more than others though, I didn't used to like relieving, always felt paranoid that I was not clean enough. My new man loves it which is good as he is better at that than actual sex. I don't mind giving a bj but I find it a bit boring ( as its pleasuring him and not me ).

I think it's normal for a man to loose his erection when going down on you, he's probably concentrating on what he's doing, doesn't mean he's not enjoying it.

DP loves it. He finds his pleasure in making sure I get mine. I love it and he does it almost every time we have sex. I very rarely return the favour. He's so quiet its like going down on a brick wall, I dont know if he's enjoying it or not so it puts me off doing it.