Does your OH mind going down on you? (possible tmi warning)

[submissivelass]

My dear DP does not like going down at all. He utterly dreads it. He has said it's because he doesn't like the way fanjos taste or smell. He also did not like doing it with previous partners. I am a very clean lady and have no issues in that department. In fairness, he doesn't ask for BJs, which is good because I find them boring. Would rather just shag than have to give one.

Don't really get it and never have, not arsed about giving BJs. Much prefer PIV and always have. Horses for courses!

I didn't use to enjoy receiving at all, I was self-conscious and just didn't get anything out of it.

Then I started shaving my lady garden. Jesus, what a difference. Now my fella could actually find my clitoris and attend to it without a bunch of hair muffling the sensation.

It's now my favourite type of sex. I would not be with anyone who didn't want to do it.

He likes it, I hate it because (I've never told him this and never would) he's actually shit at it. I've loved it in the past.

He also loves BJs and I give it reluctantly. I prefer to just have a quick shag, he prefers foreplay in general. I'm sure this will change when I don't have tiny children sucking my energy all day

Chocolate You should really tell him. Not, 'sorry darling, but you suck at that'...pardon the pun , but you could tell him how you'd really like it. I suspect he's a bit of a lizard??...... I could be completely off base here, but most women I've spoken to who say their dps aren't good at that, say it's because they think it's all about going fast and from beginning to end. God it's really not! I don't think it would be wrong for you to guide him during, rather than a talk beforehand. He's less likely to be offended and might even be even more turned on because you're being so sexually assertive.

You don't have to tell him he's crap, just guide him towards the right things.

DH claims he loves doing it, and I believe him (I also love receiving it). I believe him coz he's always erect afterwards so I assume he is aroused during it.

Chocolate it may just be the exhaustion of small children. I went off cunnilingus (and indeed sex generally) when the DC were small, didn't want DH to do it at all but now our youngest is nearly 3 I've got my mojo back and I enjoy it again. But notthe is right as well.

My husband loves giving he gets a buzz from it. Teases me all day some times with txts etc I end up having to fight him off after a while ha!! He is very good at it though and ive managed to train him to my standards over the years.

Think its personal choice though sorry if this is tmi but ive had bi experiences and that is one thing I hated doing

vodka, you homophobe!! Just kidding. Although let's just hope the pc brigade don't arrive.

nooo deffinately not a homophobe just a selfish lover as had no problem with recieving haha

Mine would do it willingly every night, he loves it.
I also like giving bj's he loves those.
It's each to their own though.
You sound like a good match you don't like giving, neither does he.

Mine hates it. I hate that he hates it but he has ishoos with bodily fluid so it all makes sense.

In general we don't do it but DH does occasionally seem in the mood for it and we both enjoy it then. I can take or leave it, and he's the same with BJs.

vodka haha! Tut tut.

One of DH's favourite past times.

Isn't the whole point of sex giving and receiving pleasure... how can bjs be boring if you are giving pleasure to your man? He and I love both

I've always loved doing it, I genuinely take huge amounts of pleasure from it... and the better one delivers the goods (so to speak) the more one gets rewarded; I'm just selfish I guess :)

My DH loves it and is bloody fantastic at it. he does it to me a lot more than I do to him as I have to be really in the mood to give him a bj. I do enjoy it once I get going but it's just the getting to it

Mine likes it more than I do I think. I'm not overly bothered but sometimes I let him get on with it! I don't dislike it, just... I don't know. It wouldn't be the first thing I'd pick.

He loves it, but I won't do a BJ unless he wears a condom . fussy eater

I'm with the party of people that would say deal breaker.

My new partner would spend his life down there....he absolutely loves it. I love receiving and giving. It's a huge part of our intimate time.

God I'm going to have to Whatsapp him now.

DH likes it.

I love giving oral sex but don't like receiving so much.

I have been a fan with anyone I have been with.

I love both giving and receiving. he's bloody amazing at it, loves doing and boy does it show. I'm more than happy to reciprocate