Hey, good to hear your DS is having a chilled bank holiday one, and getting some R&R!
Ah. The masking…. Yes, that’s really tough and is difficult to deal with generally, and it’s making my trying to ascertain how exams have gone/ where he is up to revision wise/ if he’s overly concerned or worried about revision or generally really difficult. I know all DC are different and DS18 is NT but the trying to read DS16 is so incredibly hard at times. I read on here about some topics their DC are revising/ came up in exams/ any of this and I don’t get anything from my DS at all, he just blocks and masks things ( when he finally talked to me about the 👿 Eng Lang Paper 1, it seemed as tho he didn’t/ couldn’t verbalise pitch me, until he had a meme of it to use as a tool to broach the subject). Talking Therapy sounds good for your DS, is he finding it helpful? My DS had a nurse he spoke to in school but she felt he needed more help than she could offer, so he’s been referred elsewhere. He tried a number of different ADHD meds, his last prescribed one was unobtainable in UK for so long, ( a couple of years ago), he got used to not having them so is currently only on his epilepsy meds. Does your DS find them a benefit, exam wise? I hope they are helping.
It is a shame that his school, despite his diagnosis having been firmly in place for years when he started in Yr 7 have been of no support to him. He was only granted access to a laptop after a couple of years of us desperately trying to get one allowed, even offering to buy one ourselves, and his writing being illegible. Bullying wasn’t stopped and we had to fight for him to get extra time etc in his GCSEs.
Study leave sounds great for your DS and the class sizes and year group sizes, also. It sounds like they have done everything they can to support him, which is reassuring, despite him getting a diagnosis relatively late in the day.
Drama… ah.. I get it now! Well, he may hopefully find the writing part better than he fears, and it’s positive that he should hopefully get a good pass 🤩.. The essay writing improvement is good, too.
I think I mentioned earlier, I don’t know very much about at what point you can take functional skills? DS failed his Nov and Spring mock (3 in Spring), too, I think that’s what you mean about your DS? Can you book a FS as backup? ( I can’t imagine DS agreeing to go through this trauma again 🙄).
Your Plan A sounds very solid! Does your DS know what he wishes to do, yet? Plan B, will that mean leaving his current school? It’s good you have plans in place, tho hopefully Plan A shall come to pass!!
Goid luck starting back with the revision in the morning! 🤞