Evening all! (NB-TLDR!!)
I’ve had no WiFi!! I am SO sorry to the lovely posters who have replied!! I am back and playing catch up. Last night was unexpected. After the obvs wretched day, DS16 was decompressing online last with his friends ( he doesn’t really see any IRL friends regularly), and I took DS18 into town to meet his friends who’ve come back from Uni ( he is back from travelling and off to Uni in Sept)… all good. I came home and kept bright and breezily checking on DS16 ( now back to “just” DS!!). He was brightening up, chatting with his friend in Newcastle who also “ had a shocker”… so…… playing games, starting to slowly chill…all ticking along ok… until 💥 POWER OUTTAGE!! 🙀 So, no WiFi!! .. PLUS DS18 was still out in town with plan to message me when to pick up…. which couldn’t happen as no WhatsApp ! And, we live in the countryside and have sketchy mobile reception.. so I couldn’t call him, either ( and no taxi/Ubers).. anyway! I drove to get service, but he’d already tried me countless times, I was panicking as it takes about an hour to walk home.. country pitch black lanes.. ( which he has NEVER done at night), but finally located him safely outside the only takeout in the early hours to find he had been a grown up, realised he couldn’t get in touch, and arranged to stay at his mates for an impromptu after hours play pool and sleep over there…. So, I ended up giving them all lift home with their pizzas and beers to his mates, as it was pouring down, and I came back home again, to find DS had used his no WiFi to shower his toy 🐩, and hairdryer him! 🤩🤩🤩.
Anyway! It really tickled me….it really was validation, to me, on a teeny level, of course, that our DC are so much more resilient than we ( I’m meaning probably me, as I’m fairly stressy as a parent and overthink/ overworry….) give them credit for. They had bought sussed out the situations they were in, and cracked on with it!!
I finally got to bed about 4am, proud and happy- despite the trying day for DS, and we have both woken afresh (well, hardly!) and realise the only way to look is ahead….
Today, the Memes have added to the positivity!! Thank you!!! 🙏🙏🙏!! Plus, he has opened up about the exam yesterday, a little..I’ve never read it, he told me the extract sounded like Handmaids Tale X 👽 !! I’m still not sure what he wrote about in Q5. ( tho I do know he said he did write about “dishwasher sky”… not “ dishwater “?!!)…. Oh, and he said in Q4, they had to argue that the extract isn’t mysterious…? When he thought it so patently was?! and, at least we are talking normally and essentially having a bit of a giggle about a situation that can’t be changed, so a waste of energy to expend on what has been, we can only try to strategise the HELL out of Paper 2!!
Well!, as I said, at the start of my TLDR post ( sorry !!).. huge 🙏to the lovely posters who replied to me earlier, and I’m starting my replies now!!! (🤞for the WiFi to play fair)!
I hope all your DC ( and you all!) are having as lovely a weekend as we can right now)…😸
ps- I ordered a copy of the damn book Midwich Cuckoos from Amazon! It sounds SO intriguing!