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Is Westminster School the best school on Earth? STATESMOM returns

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statesmom · 27/06/2024 22:23

I have a lot to say, don't know if anyone remembers the thread. Let me know if you want to hear from me.

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ConfusedBrit · 10/07/2024 14:13

Araminta1003 · 10/07/2024 11:58

I think @statesmom just has different cultural expectations. If it is the norm in the US to get an educational consultant for Ivies, so be it. I have friends who are internationals (Indians, Singaporeans, living in Dubai etc) and they are also doing it. Because their DCs are classed as “international students” in the UK, of course they are choosing the better funded Ivies over top unis here. Here they would have to pay overseas fees to subsidise everyone else, because they are not tax resident here, so US uni is better value for them. Like @statesmom explains, the endowments make for nicer facilities, more course options etc. - far more choice.

So I think I understand what @statesmom is saying. And I suspect therefore some of the kids at eg Sevenoaks School who can cope with the IB and are all rounders and doing service and extra curricular and would have to pay overseas fees too at e.g Imperial or Oxbridge, may also choose a top US uni. In addition, UK unis are not great at giving IB the full credit. We looked into it as an option for one DC because it sounds amazing, but from a UK uni perspective and given the huge workload, it does not make much sense. The research shows IB students do really well at uni, but they do not do as well getting into top unis so that is a failure of our uni system, in my opinion.

And perhaps the path to aspiration and success in the US for an international person is now better? So Indians/Chinese/Middle East rich people prefer those unis now?

The game in the UK is different. You have to be understated, send your DC to state school and play an entirely different game than in the US. Maybe @statesmom just did not appreciate that and so regrets not opting for Eton which is also a more centrist place, politically speaking. Westminster School has always been a little left leaning. Perhaps it infiltrates the teaching and he or she didn’t like it much?

How does one know if a school is "left leaning" or centrist? Where would SevenOaks fall?

ChimneyPot · 10/07/2024 14:19

@Araminta1003 I don’t think US moms are sharing details of their kids coaching with each other.
A lot of my eldest DCs friends at her Ivy went to the New York schools that are seen as feeders for the Ivies. They say you would never tell anyone who your coach is, it would be seen as giving up an advantage. It is incredibly competitive.

One of them offered to introduce my second DC to his coach which was a huge honour but we declined so I never found out how much it would cost.

statesmom · 10/07/2024 14:25

New York City is out of control.

I posted a while ago a firm that has an 8 year plan for college coaching for $1.5 million.

Not a joke. It was in the New York Times. Crazy.

If you're here in the UK and can get a good US college consultant, you are in SO much better a position than someone applying from NYC, CT, LA, etc.

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Araminta1003 · 10/07/2024 14:27

@Arsenal4Ever

“About Westminster School Westminster School is the perfect environment for happy and purposeful pupils. Pupils are intellectually, socially, ethically and politically engaged and our aim is to ensure that their enthusiasm for learning is developed further, allowing them to take full advantage of the opportunities presented to them in the future. While the School is one of the foremost centres of academic excellence in the country, its commitment to academic life does not make it a hothouse for passing examinations. Pupils’ success at examinations and entry to leading universities is instead a result of their enjoyment of academic enquiry, debate and search for explanation, well beyond published syllabuses. It is important also that pupils have the freedom to lead on projects outside of the classroom and embrace a whole range of extra-curricular activities and interests. A host of pupil-led Societies take place every week at the School and pupils can choose to study an additional language, play an instrument or two, volunteer in the local community, row along the Thames, take part in plays and musicals, and much more. The School’s ethos resides in the enduring values of the liberal tradition reflected in the 1560 Charter of Westminster’s Elizabethan foundation, where it is stated that: ‘the youth which is growing to manhood, as tender shoots in the wood of our state, shall be liberally instructed in good books to the greater honour of the state’. Whilst academic and cultural attainments are highly prized at Westminster, the School is fully committed also to nurture each pupil’s spiritual, moral, emotional and physical development and wellbeing – with a particular emphasis on drawing out individual talent wherever it lies – and to prepare young people for fulfilled private and public lives.”

https://teacheroo.io/employer/company/901/Westminster-School

Arsenal4Ever · 10/07/2024 14:34

Araminta1003 · 10/07/2024 14:27

@Arsenal4Ever

“About Westminster School Westminster School is the perfect environment for happy and purposeful pupils. Pupils are intellectually, socially, ethically and politically engaged and our aim is to ensure that their enthusiasm for learning is developed further, allowing them to take full advantage of the opportunities presented to them in the future. While the School is one of the foremost centres of academic excellence in the country, its commitment to academic life does not make it a hothouse for passing examinations. Pupils’ success at examinations and entry to leading universities is instead a result of their enjoyment of academic enquiry, debate and search for explanation, well beyond published syllabuses. It is important also that pupils have the freedom to lead on projects outside of the classroom and embrace a whole range of extra-curricular activities and interests. A host of pupil-led Societies take place every week at the School and pupils can choose to study an additional language, play an instrument or two, volunteer in the local community, row along the Thames, take part in plays and musicals, and much more. The School’s ethos resides in the enduring values of the liberal tradition reflected in the 1560 Charter of Westminster’s Elizabethan foundation, where it is stated that: ‘the youth which is growing to manhood, as tender shoots in the wood of our state, shall be liberally instructed in good books to the greater honour of the state’. Whilst academic and cultural attainments are highly prized at Westminster, the School is fully committed also to nurture each pupil’s spiritual, moral, emotional and physical development and wellbeing – with a particular emphasis on drawing out individual talent wherever it lies – and to prepare young people for fulfilled private and public lives.”

https://teacheroo.io/employer/company/901/Westminster-School

I could put the same paragraph to a local secondary school in Clacton-on-Sea, except for the Elizabeth foudation part. But that’s not very left-leaning, is it?

DDberzatto · 10/07/2024 14:35

DeborahVance · 10/07/2024 13:35

This is a really interesting discussion. I agree that the game in the UK is different, getting into Oxbridge from a state school with no extra support is super high status. Having lots of tutors on top of private schools is slightly embarrassing and certainly not something anyone would want others to know.

Definitely this. In my DC year at Westminster one kid (who wasn’t at the top of his year) and was tutored in History for both the HAT for Oxford and for his History A level, He was forever known as the kid who couldn’t make the cut under his own steam. Being able to make the cut untutored at Westminster is seen as a badge of honour between the students.

Araminta1003 · 10/07/2024 14:36

From the Sevenoaks School website: “Continued success also depends on maintaining and articulating our particular spirit of liberal internationalism; a curriculum built around the International Baccalaureate and our own Middle School programme, a powerful service ethos, a distinctive educational influence and a truly cosmopolitan student body.”

@ConfusedBrit it’s called “spirit of liberal internationalism”.

@Arsenal4Ever has told me off for bringing politics into it. Of course, schools are supposedly apolitical but they all have a distinct ethos which is closely related to a type of politics. It is quite difficult to understand that if you don’t have loads of friends with kids already attending these institutions.

Anyone wishing to know more start researching the governing bodies. Tells you a thing or two about state academies as well, by the way.

I bet those of you who have been to different Ivies and other schools will tell a similar story on “ethos” and particular affiliations.

Arsenal4Ever · 10/07/2024 14:46

Of course, schools are supposedly apolitical but they all have a distinct ethos which is closely related to a type of politics. It is quite difficult to understand that if you don’t have loads of friends with kids already attending these institutions.

This is like claiming there’s a unicorn in the house that only you can see.

meandkarmavibe · 10/07/2024 14:49

Having been to Westminster, the idea that it’s some leftie cabal is laughable, it’s true it’s not a Sloaney home counties place at all, the vibe in my day anyway was cool and intellectual, but it is still a place of immense privilege. my friend who went there to have all sorts of different political leanings.

Blinkingbonkers · 10/07/2024 15:06

Hrtft - sorry! Just thought I’d pop on to say that I know a few kids who’ve received varying sports scholarships to Ivies in the US…. There is admittedly one that is very good & has huge potential…. The others are really not that brilliant….i thought it was incredibly difficult to get these scholarships but apparently not….🤷🏼‍♀️. My kid was offered the opportunity to apply for one but has chosen to stay in the UK…sadly no scholarship system…but they’re happy with civilisation here. You know what happened to the Romans OP?😂

londonmummy1966 · 10/07/2024 15:13

The path to power flows through the Ivy League.

But just one British university has educated 9 current monarchs, 18 international PMs/Presidents from the C21st alone - including one Bill Clinton - and every UK Prime Minister this century. I'm inclined to think that if you want a career in politics PPE at Oxford is just as useful.

Araminta1003 · 10/07/2024 15:18

“I'm inclined to think that if you want a career in politics PPE at Oxford is just as useful.“

I used to think that, but given the rhetoric has gone “anti elite”, who knows? Might be better to go to Warwick. Nobody knows.

londonmummy1966 · 10/07/2024 15:18

statesmom · 10/07/2024 11:11

You have no idea what you are talking about.

Eton's endowment is £568 million as of August 2022.

Do yourself a favor and google "eton annual report".

For someone who has allegedly worked in the City you seem a bit financially illiterate - Eton's endowment of (£611 odd million I believe) is capital the PP clearly states that the £33m is the INCOME from the endowment - the former is in the balance sheet the latter in the P&L - accountancy 101 in your beloved American terms....

I hope for Citi's sake your son is a bit less clueless than you are.

ChimneyPot · 10/07/2024 15:18

@Blinkingbonkers No Ivy League schools give sports scholarships.
You may be more likely to be accepted or indeed be recruited if you are an exceptional sportsperson or indeed exceptional in another field but finance for all students is based on a means test.
All Ivies work on 100% needs met for all admitted students. Once you get in they look at your family income/wealth, determine how much you can afford and how much financial aid you should get. In DCs schools this is grant aid rather than loans but I don’t know if some of them still use loans.

statesmom · 10/07/2024 15:51

Blinkingbonkers · 10/07/2024 15:06

Hrtft - sorry! Just thought I’d pop on to say that I know a few kids who’ve received varying sports scholarships to Ivies in the US…. There is admittedly one that is very good & has huge potential…. The others are really not that brilliant….i thought it was incredibly difficult to get these scholarships but apparently not….🤷🏼‍♀️. My kid was offered the opportunity to apply for one but has chosen to stay in the UK…sadly no scholarship system…but they’re happy with civilisation here. You know what happened to the Romans OP?😂

There are no sports scholarships in the Ivy League.

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statesmom · 10/07/2024 15:54

londonmummy1966 · 10/07/2024 15:18

For someone who has allegedly worked in the City you seem a bit financially illiterate - Eton's endowment of (£611 odd million I believe) is capital the PP clearly states that the £33m is the INCOME from the endowment - the former is in the balance sheet the latter in the P&L - accountancy 101 in your beloved American terms....

I hope for Citi's sake your son is a bit less clueless than you are.

Yes, I misread the post. I do make mistakes, you know. But there is no way Westminster has that level of income from its endowment.

Why are people on this website so nasty? Is it necessary to say "I hope for Citi's sake your son is a bit less clueless than you are." ?

Lady, I can almost guarantee you that my family is more successful than yours. I don't know if that makes us clueless or not.

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Blinkingbonkers · 10/07/2024 16:07

I deliberately haven’t listed the sports for which they have received scholarships….. a bit outing no? Genuinely op - you’ve put quite a lot of info in here and public schools are small places - I’d be a bit more vague about your son’s achievements.

statesmom · 10/07/2024 16:08

Blinkingbonkers · 10/07/2024 16:07

I deliberately haven’t listed the sports for which they have received scholarships….. a bit outing no? Genuinely op - you’ve put quite a lot of info in here and public schools are small places - I’d be a bit more vague about your son’s achievements.

Well, they haven't received any sports scholarships.

THERE ARE NO SPORTS SCHOLARSHIPS IN THE IVY LEAGUE.

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statesmom · 10/07/2024 16:13

Blinkingbonkers · 10/07/2024 15:06

Hrtft - sorry! Just thought I’d pop on to say that I know a few kids who’ve received varying sports scholarships to Ivies in the US…. There is admittedly one that is very good & has huge potential…. The others are really not that brilliant….i thought it was incredibly difficult to get these scholarships but apparently not….🤷🏼‍♀️. My kid was offered the opportunity to apply for one but has chosen to stay in the UK…sadly no scholarship system…but they’re happy with civilisation here. You know what happened to the Romans OP?😂

I'm sorry but this post seems to be completely made up out of whole cloth.

There are no sports scholarships (nor academic) in the Ivies and one is not "invited" to apply for a scholarship.

And yes, I do know what happened to the Romans, thank you. What does that have to do with the next hundred years in the United States?

There seems to be so much self-justification on this thread, goodness. People trying to make themselves feel better with random posts about irrelevant issues.

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statesmom · 10/07/2024 16:16

That is not a Harvard website. (you should not trust everything you read on the internet)

The entire formation of the Ivy League was around sports; in actual fact it IS A SPORTS LEAGUE.

The 8 members have agreed to give no scholarships outside of demonstrated financial need.

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Blinkingbonkers · 10/07/2024 16:18

Yet, they’re still scholarships op - because, believe it or not, there are a huge number of people who can’t drop 400k on a uni education.

statesmom · 10/07/2024 16:20

The Ivy League is a sports league:

https://www.espn.com/mens-college-basketball/standings

I don't begrudge the complete ignorance I find over here regarding US colleges; why should anyone in the UK be intimately familiar with them?

The time I decided to engage our college consultant was at a US university meeting up school and one parent asked: "You keep talking about college. Is that different from a university?"

I was like: these people need help.

Men's College Basketball Standings, 2023-24 season - ESPN

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https://www.espn.com/mens-college-basketball/standings

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statesmom · 10/07/2024 16:21

Blinkingbonkers · 10/07/2024 16:18

Yet, they’re still scholarships op - because, believe it or not, there are a huge number of people who can’t drop 400k on a uni education.

THERE ARE NO SPORTS SCHOLARSHIPS.

THERE ARE NO DRAMA SCHOLARSHIPS.

THERE ARE NO ACADEMIC SCHOLARSHIPS.

In the Ivy League, not Stanford, not Chicago et al, there are only scholarships for demonstrated financial need.

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Arsenal4Ever · 10/07/2024 16:23

statesmom · 10/07/2024 15:54

Yes, I misread the post. I do make mistakes, you know. But there is no way Westminster has that level of income from its endowment.

Why are people on this website so nasty? Is it necessary to say "I hope for Citi's sake your son is a bit less clueless than you are." ?

Lady, I can almost guarantee you that my family is more successful than yours. I don't know if that makes us clueless or not.

The number is on Westminster schools annual report.

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