@BonjourCrisette Well said. i concur with you on everything esp the underfunding aspect of schools which i personally experienced. It could be different with some grammar schools.
Also agree the SAT exams which my son is sitting and his state school is keen to be on the data point list of achieving top sat scores
Third point is Sports. In many grammar schools there is a dedicated coach ONLY for the A team and maximum B team. For the rest of the teams ( C to F) they are at the mercy of a volunteer from the school.. ( funding issues)
In indepedent schools, even the F team kids are made to enjoy the sport and learn a bit.
Lunch time clubs - There is no comparison. Over 150 clubs in Independent. And lunch time is 75 minutes in independent schools vs 50 min in grammar schools.
That extra 25 mins adds a lot of enjoyment to the kids every day
The money factor is always there, but if you can afford it, i would put my cards on the indepdent school ( as long as you have done your research - ie every kid is different and will thrive in a different setting)
Class ratio 20:1 vs 30:1
Language options - better taught and more options.
If i did not have the money or the choices, then would have def put my Ds in a grammar school.