@PreplexJ @QuiteAJourney Thank you both for sharing your insight.
@SamPoodle123 DS went to a prep, I still have clear memories of how nerve-wracking those final months were, mostly due to the lack of a banker choice. The school advised us to sit for 13+ route rather than 11+ except for LU.
He was among the top 5 in the prep year and we got all the offers but one from reserve list. Luckily, he was accepted by the school we wanted the most.
In terms of prep schedule, it was before the covid, DS prep was very intensive from the second term of Year 5, with about half an hour of homework every night, covering maths and English, some online. I also devoted another 15 minutes each day to sitting with DC and discussing the feedback from the previous days, as our prep encouraged. There was also a 2 week exam focus camp during the summer. In addition, the prep gave regular in class exam style exercises at the start of year 6. We also attended some online mock sessions for ISEB.
We try not to compromise DS other activities during the period, such as holidays, sport tournaments and chess which he loves. It is definitely achievable.
DD is at a different prep with less hothousing, the school gives homework to the whole class, mostly on Atom learning practice with a maximum of 2 hours a week. We started this time right from Year 5 and also signed up for a weekly 90 minutes Zoom group tutoring class, it is going well so far (fingers crossed). The tutor class also has some homework on writing and practicing past papers, we normally can’t find time to finish them all. On the bright side, DH now has more time to sit down with DD to do maths/NVR quiz and mock on Atom and past papers for about 20-30 mins daily. DD is also reducing her screen time, which is nice.
We are less stressed this time because we have more options for schools. We will wait and see what happens in the next few months.