It’s an interesting one since for several years, kings Wimbledon has been the TOP boys and co-Ed school.
This year, St Paul’s boys is the top boys. But, for whatever reason, KCS tends not to shout its achievement, so maybe people don’t always realise how it has been the highest achieving boys’ school (several on this thread don’t).
I do agree that for name recognition it is Westminster, St Paul’s, and outside London, Eton (the latter is much further down the table though) and rugby (even further down). Of course, if you want the very best school, you want St Paul’s girls…
Anyway, there is nothing in it between any of 3 you mention. I made our decision based on LOCATION. being near the school is such a great choice, for friendships, for the Saturday sport, for the after school events. (Saturday school, too, for Westminster; though boarding may be the answer at that school, to get around the location issue.)
But these schools are all incredibly over subscribed, so manage your child’s expectations. They are ALL fast paced, and ALL full of bright kids. I would have hated it! If your child just soaks up information, enjoys learning, is super fast at maths, has brilliant vocab, grammar etc, all are great. Also it helps to love sport, and to be quite alpha, or extrovert; though there are introverts who are bad at sport at all!
ref oxbridge, this is NOT the be all and end all (I’m an oxbridge grad, so I’m not being mean about oxbridge) but attitudes are changing and there are many other places that might suit my (very quick!) son better (I’m not being biased, he won an 11+ academic scholarship, to be clear). Anyway, if he chose one of those other places (eg LSE) rather than say oxford, that would be one less person on the school’s list. Those lists don’t always tell the full story.