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With Oxbridge taking less and less private school students, is it still worth it??

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SillySmart · 23/02/2023 22:25

stats shows that the number of private educated students Oxbridge enrolled has dropped 1/3 in the past 5 years. Any thoughts?

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Barbadossunset · 16/02/2024 10:09

TheaBrandt · 15/02/2024 22:55

Also intelligence does not depend on class or education. As part of my job I have to explain a relatively complex thing to the general public. Frequently the “well educated” middle class cannot get their heads round it. Many of the working class particularly women get it immediately and asked spot on questions. They are innately cleverer. But Hugo in his pink shirt with his posh house and cut glass accent is assumed to have a superior intellect.

How do you know what class these people are? Do you judge their class by their accent, or do you have details of the backgrounds of all the people you are explaining things to?

CurlewKate · 16/02/2024 10:12

"Many parents sending their children to private schools aren’t privileged. They work really hard sacrifices a lot and in fact many gets bursaries as well. There is nothing wrong in being aspirational. Not all children going to private are born with a silver spoon."

Possibly not. But they are all born with a spoon.

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 10:15

@ArseInTheCoOpWindow
Yes but the ones 'on the websites' are the ones where they will actually take a child with lower grades, taking their disadvantaged background into account.

I imagine what you're talking about is if they are comparing two students with the same grades they may be inclined to take the state student, partly to fill their quotas. But this is totally ignoring the fact that children are more likely to get better grades from a private school (a good one anyway), so they are still at an advantage and therefore would argue it is still 'worth it', not to mention grades / uni application isn't the only benefit of choosing private anyway.

TeenDivided · 16/02/2024 10:24

A vast proportion of people looking for private schools are doing so because of better quality teaching / smaller classes / less disruptive behaviour.
(Yes I know not all, some really are looking for sport or wrap around care, plus of course SEN).
The logical extrapolation of that however is they think their children will get better results in private than otherwise in state.
So to me it is only reasonable for universities to go for a state candidate above a private one if there are equal grades, especially if the state candidate is coming from a comp.

(I say this as a private educated Cambridge graduate.)

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 16/02/2024 10:28

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 10:15

@ArseInTheCoOpWindow
Yes but the ones 'on the websites' are the ones where they will actually take a child with lower grades, taking their disadvantaged background into account.

I imagine what you're talking about is if they are comparing two students with the same grades they may be inclined to take the state student, partly to fill their quotas. But this is totally ignoring the fact that children are more likely to get better grades from a private school (a good one anyway), so they are still at an advantage and therefore would argue it is still 'worth it', not to mention grades / uni application isn't the only benefit of choosing private anyway.

No. As a parent we had to fill in contextual background as part of UCAS application. E.g illness etc. We had to do this at the end of Year 12. School then put it on UCAS forms.

So it is just an outline on uni websites. If you have any context it would be considered.

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 10:55

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 16/02/2024 10:28

No. As a parent we had to fill in contextual background as part of UCAS application. E.g illness etc. We had to do this at the end of Year 12. School then put it on UCAS forms.

So it is just an outline on uni websites. If you have any context it would be considered.

I mean that's not unsurprising that there's a space on the form to write things like that. But I wouldn't put much hope into the that being factored in, if one of the official contextualised critia isn't met (bottom 20% school, having been in care etc..) and if it is taken into account I don't think it would lower the grades needed (unlike with the official contextualised offers). So it would be being compared with children of the same grades.

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 10:59

@ArseInTheCoOpWindow
And are you suggesting that writing 'went to a (not crap) comp / went to a grammar' on there would give you an advantage over someone who gained better grades?

Makes sense to be able to note illness etc, which is a different matter to the topic of this thread

fickleisshe · 16/02/2024 11:13

@TheaBrandt Goodness me. I must make sure that my unborn son is called Sean, wears nothing but denim and T-shirts and speaks proper Estuary English. We will never live in a posh house, fortunately. That way we can ensure that his innate cleverness will shine through.

TheaBrandt · 16/02/2024 11:21

I need to know their circumstances to do my job.

TheaBrandt · 16/02/2024 11:22

Oh chill out! Was just making the general point - just annoys me SOME people that are not that bright do so well in life and those from more modest backgrounds who are just as sharp don’t.

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 11:26

TheaBrandt · 16/02/2024 11:22

Oh chill out! Was just making the general point - just annoys me SOME people that are not that bright do so well in life and those from more modest backgrounds who are just as sharp don’t.

This is life all over though isn't it, and doesn't just apply to education/jobs.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 16/02/2024 11:27

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 10:59

@ArseInTheCoOpWindow
And are you suggesting that writing 'went to a (not crap) comp / went to a grammar' on there would give you an advantage over someone who gained better grades?

Makes sense to be able to note illness etc, which is a different matter to the topic of this thread

No, l was talking about illness, problems, things like that. They are still contextual backgrounds and subject to contextual offers.

AND, my dd is very bright but has ASD. I enquired about this with a Russell Group as a contextual background relating to their offers.

The Equal Opportunities people were very interested when l said she didn’t fit their offer. And they contacted them to tell them so.

TheaBrandt · 16/02/2024 11:28

I was responding to the poster making the point that private school pupils were more intelligent

winterrabbit · 16/02/2024 11:50

So many generalisations here. Many people go back to state at 6th form not to game the system but because there is far more choice, at least in London, at this stage then there is when moving to secondary where tiny catchments mean that you end up with a school you're not happy with. Loads of people I know would have happily sent their kids to a state school if there had been a good or outstanding one available. I send my child to a mediocre private school because I felt it was a better option that the local choice. He'll go back to state at 6th form as his school doesn't have one. A few kids I know got into Oxford having gone to outstanding state schools in London where they had a similar level of support as they would have had in private. These applicants, and those from grammars, should be subject to the same positive discrimination as those from private schools. It's not about private v state as there are good/bad ones in each and there are people gaming the system in each. Also, why are people still obsessed with Oxbridge? The most elitist and privileged establishment possibly in the world? There are many many other good if not better options which don't involve looking forward on others.

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 11:58

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 16/02/2024 11:27

No, l was talking about illness, problems, things like that. They are still contextual backgrounds and subject to contextual offers.

AND, my dd is very bright but has ASD. I enquired about this with a Russell Group as a contextual background relating to their offers.

The Equal Opportunities people were very interested when l said she didn’t fit their offer. And they contacted them to tell them so.

Ok, but this thread is about whether it's still an advantage to go to a private school Vs State.

And people reference contextual offers in terms of this, saying it's easier to get in from state. Which isn't true, unless the state is bottom 20% it won't qualify for the offical contextualised offer (which means lower grades can be accepted) Or if you're comparing two students with the same grades, unis may favour state. But as mentioned they are more likely to get those good grades at private anyway.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 16/02/2024 12:07

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 11:58

Ok, but this thread is about whether it's still an advantage to go to a private school Vs State.

And people reference contextual offers in terms of this, saying it's easier to get in from state. Which isn't true, unless the state is bottom 20% it won't qualify for the offical contextualised offer (which means lower grades can be accepted) Or if you're comparing two students with the same grades, unis may favour state. But as mentioned they are more likely to get those good grades at private anyway.

I brought it up because you are incorrect in your contextual offers. It doesn’t just apply to people from rubbish state schools. It applies to a lot more than that. Disrupted studies come under contextual offers.

https://www.sheffield.ac.uk/study/policies/access-sheffield

Access Sheffield policies

Our Access Sheffield policies help ensure that everyone who has the potential to succeed on our courses has the opportunity to do so. A lot of people might not think they’re eligible for support, but we have a broad pathway to ensure able students can...

https://www.sheffield.ac.uk/study/policies/access-sheffield

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 12:21

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 16/02/2024 12:07

I brought it up because you are incorrect in your contextual offers. It doesn’t just apply to people from rubbish state schools. It applies to a lot more than that. Disrupted studies come under contextual offers.

https://www.sheffield.ac.uk/study/policies/access-sheffield

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Yes, it also applies to people who have been in care, live in disadvantaged areas etc etc, but this thread is about state Vs private, that's why I was mentioning that element of them in particular

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 12:39

SillySmart · 23/02/2023 23:54

I see your argument, but I also see UK2020’s argument. Imagine if you were a Westminster graduate. You got AAA and might not get an offer. Someone with ABB from a more humble background got an offer. What would you think? You got AAA not only because you are in private, but also the efforts you have to put in yourself, plus all the support your family provides. Do you think that’s fair to you? How much more does a private school student need to achieve over a student from deprived backgrounds, then we say the former has more academic potential than the latter?

But 'from a more humbled background' means more than just going to an average comp / state grammar. It means going to very low achieving comp, coming from a very deprived area, having had very disrupted studies due to illness etc. They aren't randomly taking children which lower grades because they didn't go to private school. You are still much more likely to get the grades / get into your uni of choice from a private school.

Name999999 · 16/02/2024 12:50

Our local comp in a very affluent area doesn’t get the same treatment for Oxbridge as one from a more deprived area. They look at postcodes.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 16/02/2024 12:54

SillySmart · 24/02/2023 00:05

Exactly. On the contrary, I found from people I know, kids going to private school are much more hard working than state school kids. I’m a bit confused about the hostility towards private education here. I thought that shows parents commitment/aspiration for better education for kids and that can only be good?

Wow. The ignorance and smugness will never cease to astonish me!

Barbadossunset · 16/02/2024 13:19

Wow. The ignorance and smugness will never cease to astonish me.

There’s also inverted snobbery on this thread - sneering at posh Hugo with his big house and pink shirt (oddly, no mention of red trousers).

Barbadossunset · 16/02/2024 13:21

Name999999 · Today 12:50
Our local comp in a very affluent area doesn’t get the same treatment for Oxbridge as one from a more deprived area. They look at postcodes.

Do they look at postcodes of the schools or postcodes of the applicants’ addresses?

SabrinaThwaite · 16/02/2024 13:39

Londonforestmum · 16/02/2024 12:21

Yes, it also applies to people who have been in care, live in disadvantaged areas etc etc, but this thread is about state Vs private, that's why I was mentioning that element of them in particular

For some universities it can be any state school, in combination with other factors, not just state schools in lower performance bands that can qualify for contextual / widening participation offers.

eg Edinburgh and Durham - any state school with students home address being in the lower two quintiles of POLAR4

thing47 · 16/02/2024 13:51

Some universities used to have a list of specific schools which were eligible for contextual offers regardless of where the DCs lived (I know because DD's secondary modern was on it).

I thought one element of contextual offers was comparing an individual's results against the school's ie if the average A level grades at a school are 3 x Ds and a pupil achieves 3 x Bs then clearly they have done exceedingly well in the context of that school. Albeit they haven't got any A grades.

Whether they would have achieved 3 x As at a better school is a moot point, and is bound to be subjective. That's why contextualised offers are a somewhat blunt instrument, though personally I think their heart is in the right place.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 16/02/2024 14:18

Barbadossunset · 16/02/2024 13:19

Wow. The ignorance and smugness will never cease to astonish me.

There’s also inverted snobbery on this thread - sneering at posh Hugo with his big house and pink shirt (oddly, no mention of red trousers).

Yes, and that's not right either, but the ridiculous attitudes displayed by people like the OP are not exactly helping poor Hugo's case, are they?!

Crap like the stuff that the OP is spouting only feeds the stereotypes about private school "types" having a superiority complex, because clearly, some of them do.

Now, of course, little Hugo may be delightful and not like that at all, and he has every right to be judged on the basis of his own attitudes and behaviours, not the awful attitudes of people like the OP. Unfortunately, that's not always how it works, and the shitty arrogance of some is unfairly associated with others who are not like that at all.

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