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Missing out on School Trips

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Itsmylife2 · 17/12/2022 20:47

Any advice for a frustrated parent who's child has missed out on two school trips in a row.

The school has a ballot for each trip and my son's name was not pulled out of the hat last year or this year. He was bitterly disappointed last year and feels even worse this year. OK life isn't fair but the school could at least help even the playing field. Surely its only fair that if a few children miss out one year they are given priority on the next selection. Otherwise some unlucky children risk never going away while others get to go on all the trips.

Anyway we've taken the first step writing to the school but suspect we'll just be told its the school policy. Would very much appreciate any suggestions on how to pitch an approach to head teachers, govenors etc?

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jepp · 19/12/2022 07:08

@Itsmylife2 your suggestion to the school that children who missed out on previous ballots should be prioritised next time is completely reasonable and, so long as you expressed it reasonably in your email to the school, I think you should expect a positive response not a negative one. The organisation of school trips probably isn't joined up at the moment - the two trips will have been organised by two different teachers, separately following the school's ballot procedure without thinking through the consequences. They just needed someone to point it out, and that's what you've done. Good luck with the next trip!

PingPongMerrilyWithPie · 19/12/2022 16:54

Yes children who missed out getting priority seems the obvious and fairest way forward.

Things have gone a bit pearshaped with this policy in COVID. We had a massive "fun" trip in Y7 cancelled, then all the kids who'd been signed up to it then got priority on the more educational trips in Y9/Y10, crowding everyone else out. That feels unfair to me, those children taking the places over children whose parents had been saving the money towards more educational trips later on. However that's a very specific issue of the policy being used beyond what it was intended for, and it is not what OP is describing. If it's just a few kids who missed out last time, it seems very harsh for that to happen again. But do be sure of your facts OP.

MissMaple82 · 19/12/2022 17:00

What about odd way of doing things. All children should be given equal rights to trips. I can understand your frustration, I'd be putting in a.seripus complaint.

LolaSmiles · 19/12/2022 21:12

What about odd way of doing things. All children should be given equal rights to trips. I can understand your frustration, I'd be putting in a.seripus complaint.
Wave goodbye to most enrichment trips then.

My school did a ski trip and there were limited places. It meant that children who'd otherwise not go skiing, either due to family not doing it or funds, had a chance to have that experience. I didn't do it, but it was a popular trip.

If the expectations becomes that teachers give up their own time unpaid to take every child who wants to go on every trip, you'll quickly find the number of volunteers decreases.

I've not done a residential trip since I had DC because the additional work of planning and leaving cover, the evenings/weekends/holidays (where they run into the holidays) isn't worth it to be spending time with other people's children over my own. I've enjoyed most of the residential trips I've done, but there's not a single residential trip I'd have volunteered for if it mean taking over 200 children.

AlwaysLatte · 19/12/2022 21:16

That's such a shame, you would think they would prioritise those who had missed out the first time, with a smaller ballot. :-(

TizerorFizz · 19/12/2022 21:54

@LolaSmiles
Ski trips are purely optional. Nothing to do with the curriculum. Therefore a child not going doesn’t miss out on curriculum study.

LolaSmiles · 19/12/2022 22:16

Ski trips are purely optional. Nothing to do with the curriculum. Therefore a child not going doesn’t miss out on curriculum study.
A 3 day residential trip for every year group, paid by parents, where the school apparently take more than 200 children, leaving 10-20 children at home who want to go on the trip does not sound like a curriculum trip. It sounds like there's wires crossed somewhere.

It sounds like there is an enrichment residential by one of the departments to with a set number of places.

If a department run an enrichment trip, even if it supports the curriculum, it doesn't make it a curriculum trip. E.g. Schools I've worked at have organised theatre trips in the English/Drama departments. There's a set number of places for a 3 day trip to London. It isn't a curriculum trip though, but we still had complaints from some that we didn't offer more places, why it's unfair that their DC didn't get to go, etc.

TizerorFizz · 20/12/2022 01:24

The rules are pretty clear. If you are seeing a play that Dc are studying, you offer it to all. It’s not enrichment in my book. It’s the curriculum. Enrichment is going to see any play because you study drama. If Dc cannot all go, it’s unfair to select a few. By ballot or otherwise. Why should a few get better teaching/education? Yes, it’s 4 coaches plus. Ask for contributions for the coaches. Or don’t run the trip. Or make sure trips are offered on a rotating basis.

BungleandGeorge · 20/12/2022 03:55

Surely any ‘enrichment’ (extra) trip shouldn’t take place during school time. School hours are for the curriculum otherwise you’re providing a two tier education system. And some of the kids are going to have to catch up. If 3 days school are missed, some of the kids are in lessons and some are not when and how is that going to be caught up between them?

ShandaLear · 20/12/2022 04:06

Your priority is to see if you can get a place for your child. There will be a number who drop out for whatever reason. Write a note to the teacher/head of year asking to be put on the waiting list. ‘Jonny missed out last year and was really disappointed to miss out again, especially as all his friends are going and it’s his favourite subject. It a place comes up we’d be delighted to accept it’.

solidaritea · 20/12/2022 05:29

MintJulia · 18/12/2022 02:44

That's ridiculous. Are they claiming that the venue cannot accommodate everyone? Then they should run two trips. I'd consult the LEA or if an Academy I'd be kicking up a massive fuss - Ofsted, social media, local papers.....

Force the head teacher to understand that is not acceptable.

Why do people say this shit? Followed by the next one saying go straight to governors.

Talk to the school first. If not resolved, follow the complaints procedure.

Don't go to Ofsted, the press, the governors, local authority, MP, diocese, your local busybody etc. Until you've done the normal, human thing and discussed with the school.

It's definitely not an ok way to sort out trips. So tell them. If no good solution is offered, then go up the chain of command to complain. Don't start nuclear.

marcopront · 20/12/2022 06:07

@solidaritea

*Why do people say this shit? Followed by the next one saying go straight to governors.

Talk to the school first. If not resolved, follow the complaints procedure*

I would put an earlier step.
Talk to the son and make sure this is actually what happens. I think the son doesn't want to go on the trip and has made up this story.

LolaSmiles · 20/12/2022 06:52

TizerorFizz
So as I said, the departments in the schools I worked at ran an enrichment trip so I've no idea why you're going on about rules.

The idea that we should scrap trips unless staff are willing to take several hundred pupils and anyone who wants to go would quickly see the end of such trips, and then the people saying it's unfair can pat themselves on the back for stopping any of the children having those opportunities. But you won't be making things fair. You're just ensuring that the only children who get those opportunities are the ones whose parents can afford to take the whole family to the theatre, or to another city, or to visit the capital.

BungleandGeorge
It's staffing. Teachers have to be available 190 days of term time plus 5 PD days.
A residential trip involves being on call 24hours a day do several days with no overtime pay. The ones I've done tend to involve giving up all/part of your weekend too, and longer ones start part way through the final week of term and run into the start of the holidays.

How many people would sign up to use their annual leave to look after 200-250 pre-teens/teenagers unpaid in a different city/town/country? It's no different for teachers.

Aside from that, some schools I've known have reduced most trips, including day trip curriculum ones due to the cost of cover. Others allow smaller ones to reduce the number of staff off site as there's not enough people available to cover.

Blankscreen · 22/02/2023 16:29

I think it's a shame but a sign of the times. COVID probably gave a natural break and on reflection most teachers don't want to re-start offering trips.

Blankscreen · 22/02/2023 16:30

And as a pp said so many people moan about the cost....

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