@sammyspoon
I think this demonstrates that there should be much more to choosing a school than results and Ofsted reports. Really important to speak to current parents and pupils and visit a school to get a feel for it. It must've been really hard recently for people unable to visit schools due to restrictions. So much of our decision a couple of years ago came from that gut feel on the visits during school hours.
I agree totally, we were initially seduced by the gloss of the building, results, marketing, school ‘rep’ and results, until we visited an open day a few years ago. We were able to get a real feel from speaking to students etc. Although the staff were watching with very beady eyes. Thankfully we and our child could saw straight through the whole staged event. It all felt overly regulated, formulaic and lacklustre watching the school in progress and walking through the prison/hospital like sterile building. The men in suits did not appeal and the talk from the head was just a bit overbearing and off putting. Personal opinion here.
When we spoke to friends/parents we knew with children there, we were shocked to hear of the lack of pastoral care and the intense pressure put on their children (particularly leading up to exams) to achieve against all odds. Some older pupils told us of the unfairness of the banding system and the favoured pupils. This school is NOT for everyone (same as any), make sure your child is one who can thrive on such discipline, lack of pastoral and high turnover of staff etc.
Of course there will be some who have attended in last 5-10 years who have had a positive and successful experience (have personally yet to come across any and to distinguish what their ability and background might be). I have heard there is a certain favoured type of pupil... not my personal opinion here.
Do not only visit the Open Evening, make sure you do an Open Day as the former is a hyped up marketing event made to appeal to the younger kids / prospective applicants. It is not an accurate representation of the school day to day and the nitty gritty you need to know. The Open Day will hopefully give you a more accurate gut feeling.