[quote MrsHamlet]@itsgettingweird your job as a parent is to fight his corner. Mine is to find his potential and nurture it.
The handwriting thing is bollocks.[/quote]
Well yeah!
Ds has an ehcp, is autistic and has a generic condition that causes muscular weakness similar to MND.
His brain still works! He has a scribe for exams!
Sadly you just get the odd teacher who doesn't get it .
But luckily for that odd one there's hundreds more who care so so much and nurture what they know they have.
Ds went through hell at local academy and the move was a fight. But it was made it worth it by the teachers who believed in him, saw the potential within and helped him learn to manage the environment and be able to learn.
They saw past the kid who tried to put his head through a glass window, threw tables and chairs and his backpack, told teachers to F off and he wasn't staying in their lessons.
They saw the kid behind the (quite appealing I admit! Behaviour)
Ds hadn't been like this before but had had a knife pulled on him in previous school and went from passive withdrawn almost mute anxious autistic to petrified fight mode autistic.
He couldn't learn because he could barely relax in a classroom.
I think teachers are facing the most unnecessary and most disrespectful bashing right now and I think you all need to know that most parents recognise what you do, are grateful for what you do and know you do it because you genuinely do care.
And that whatever happens with results we know that you wouldn't have chosen this way either and will have done your absolute best for every student.
But it isn't like you train for pandemic situations and how to work through them!