Another parent of very stressed child here
DD has SEN and suffers from really bad anxiety she struggles with panicking in exams.
Bottom set Maths and Science and was on foundation papers for both.
She was scoring U / low 1s for both subjects in year 10 - she panicked in exams and forgot everything.
School were great she was moved into a class with about 5 other children in for maths and less than 10 for science. She was attending booster sessions before and after school and given personalised revision plans so she knew exactly what to revise and when.
They changed how she accessed exams from the large hall to a small group with rest break allowed if she started to panic.
She did her last set of mocks in February and went from 1c in maths to a 3c and 1aa in science to 3ab.
Both her teachers then changed her predicted grades from a 3 to a 4 as they believed with the progress she was now making she would get there.
The worry is now that the predicted grades will be ignored and she will be assessed on the previous results.
She only managed 4s in everything else so potentially she could fail everything when we know she would have done enough to get onto her course.
She has worked so hard to pass this year. She was never going to be top set / 9s across the board - not every child is like that. No matter how many times we tell her we are proud of her whatever, no matter how many emails her tutors are sending her over summer saying the same it still doesn't stop all the tears at the moment and her saying she is stupid and a failure.