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School advices for expat - All inputs on my thought appreciate.

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Hkelaine · 07/10/2019 18:06

Hi all,

Have been spending the last two months reading on various websites and forums, esp for mumsnet, which I found the inputs/ experience sharing from all forumers here are invaluable.

We are moving in April 2020 and now the time is ticking for lots of preparation. The first thing we have to nail down by end of this year is home location. So we are planning a trip early Nov to check out some properties. So, would appreciate if anyone can share her thoughts below so we can plan better for the trip.

  1. We prefer outer London or outside London for better value for money and still keep the job opportunity open as I believe the business activities are more robust there (I am of finance/ insurance/ consultancy). I can accept to travel up to 50mins to central London. We have two kids, 4 and 2. So, school, low crime, nice residential areas are our top priority. We also think to plan ahead to find a place close to comp schools as our backup while we aim for gramma. So, is it true that we can just focus on the distance from comp as the gramma schools just look at academic?
  1. We have hired an education consultants and talked to some friends and property agents. So far, we have in our mind some places to look at. Could you please offer any comment or other suggestions you may have?
- Barnet - near mill hill as someone said Colindale is more for working class. We are also not sure about the very high ethnic diversity 

- Sutton - good schools but again we read that some areas inside are quite rough

- Berkhamsted, St Albans and harpenden - residential area but schools are over subscribed.  Should we be concerned?  Is there a place even outside London with excellent schools, which are not heavily over subscribed?
  • Tonbridge well - nice areas but seems the neighbourhood area has high crime ratio

  • Kingston/ Richmond - I found some houses eg in Twickenham within my budget (600k for 3beds). But seems the schools are again oversubscribed and even worse not too many backup.

  • Reading - we are yet to research yet as the good school guide books we bought only cover London.

  • Watford - some recommended St Albans/ Berkhamsted over Watford for living environment. Watford does offer better transportation and convenience, supermarket etc. Which is good as my wife will need several months to get her license and I may need to travel occasionally.

  • some friends are asking me to consider Southampton and Winchester. Any opinion?

The more we research, the more we are overwhelmed by the choices and a matrix of the pros and cons. So we would deeply appreciate if you can share some light.

Many thanks.

Elaine.

OP posts:
JoJoSM2 · 11/10/2019 12:46

OP, I wonder how you’re going to survive your trip to England if you’re getting petrified! Anyway, best of luck!

Frankley · 11/10/2019 12:47

I am wondering if the OP completely understands the difference between Comprehensive schools in an area such as Oxfordshire, Grammar schools and Secondary Modern in an area such as Bucks and the highly selective like Kent

cakeisalwaystheanswer · 11/10/2019 13:26

This article is a fairly common example of what kids in SW London are experiencing. Richmond is a very nice, expensive area to live.

www.pressreader.com/uk/the-sunday-telegraph/20190127/282132112664571

JoJoSM2 · 11/10/2019 13:34

Poor kids in Richmond! That sound awful!

madeyemoodysmum · 11/10/2019 15:22

I’m afraid I know nothing about berkhamsoead but Hitchin is possible and St Albans but St Albans has definitely better areas that you need to be in to get the best schools so make sure you check those catchments out carefully.
Do you have boys or girls are Herts has good single sex schooling but catchments vary massively

For example my village house is catchment for a good mixed school an outstanding girls and a good boys by ofsted.

If you move into the actual town nearby you loose catchment for the boys and catchment for girls is a lottery. Many end up with the required improvement school.

Catchments are very specific.

Gingercat1223 · 11/10/2019 16:10

@Hkelaine , I'm not sure when you are coming to the UK & if you need a TV license to use iPlayer but if you are able to access the BBC iPlayer app there is a new daytime TV show on at the moment called "Escape to the perfect town" & this week they have featured Berkhamsted & Sevenoaks. It's a very easy to watch programme focusing on house searches in these towns.

Also I'm based near to Richmond & Twickenham & whilst familiar with the recent news stories it's a wonderful area to live in & all state education options in the Borough of Richmond upon Thames are worth considering.

madeyemoodysmum · 11/10/2019 16:27

That London mayor is bloody useless

God forbid labour get in

strawberrieshortcake · 11/10/2019 18:09

Expats from Hobg Kong worries about somewhere with too much diversity? Interesting.

You should probably cross the majority of London of your list and unless you and your family plan to only travel by car then when you commute you may encounter (shock horror!) a wide range of people from all over the world so I wonder if London is really for you?

strawberrieshortcake · 11/10/2019 18:09

*Hong Kong mind me

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