Hello, I'd like to join this thread. I need it! As per my username - how the hell has this happened?
Dd on the other hand, completely laid back.
She's a bright kid, has target grades of 8+ for every subject - unrealistic but she's hopefully looking at 7-8s in English, History, Biology, Chemistry, 9 in Maths and maybe Physics (which she claims to hate but constantly scores 8-9 in test with zero to minimal effort) and who knows, or indeed cares (as long as its at least a 5) in Drama and RE.
Maths is her absolute favourite subject, I'm hoping the school will run Further Maths, if they do it will be on an evening, but no confirmation as yet. Her teacher did suggest she could teach herself the content if they don't, not sure how reasonable that expectation is.
She did reasonably in her mocks in May, apart from History which I wasn't surprised at as she didn't seem able to remember anything from the first topic they covered and did not revise. So she needs to do some work there. Not that you'd know it, she's 'living her best life' so far this summer, although we have agreed she will do some History and Maths revision next week.
Dd's school enter them into the English Literature GCSE in year 10 and her English lessons last year were all Literature based (she absolutely loves to read at home but in terms of school work tells me she prefers creative writing and is looking forward to that next year), so she's got her first GCSE result coming next week. Credit where credit is due she really did put some hours into revising for it, hopefully its paid off and she gets a 7, I just have a little nagging doubt about how effective her revision methods were.
We've agreed she will get her head down next year and really try her best, Netflix is getting blocked and her down-time will mostly be her extra-curricular stuff and planned time with friends and family with a strong focus on getting enough sleep i.e dd you don't need to spend hours at a time lying on you bed 'chilling' there's work to be done
She's a good kid, keen to please, likes to succeed; the issue is its came pretty easily until this point. She will pass her GCSEs with decent results, but I'd like her to see where hard work on top of her natural ability can get her.
She's not planning on staying at her school for Sixth Form, at this point we're strongly leaning towards one of the other local(ish) Sixth Forms attached to a school (I think that environment will suit her better than a college, and she must agree as she's never mentioned college as an option) but we need to do open evenings there and at a couple of others. As far as I know there's no test for a place but the website does mention an interview. She wants to do Maths and further Maths, I've said she should really do Physics if she aiming for a (yet to be decided) career somehow involving Maths, and she'd like to try Psychology (I probably would have preferred History or Government and Politics but as with the Drama for GCSE (over a language) I'm prepared to compromise). I'm hoping the Sixth Form we're looking at will have better careers guidance than the current school, as I'm pretty clueless as to where she can go with the Maths, they certainly seem to from their website.
Omg so long, sorry! I promise I won't write an essay for every post!
I don't really have anyone to talk to about this stuff in real life. I had dd quite young and consequently most of my friends haven't even started having babies yet, let alone have teenagers. And even though it feels like only two minutes ago I was collecting my own GCSE results a lot seems to have changed, I also don't remember my parents really getting involved.