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3 weeks in at secondary school and my DD has moved tutor groups and classes..she’s devastated

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Tinkie25 · 22/09/2018 06:04

DD came home from school yesterday and told me that her and about 5 other children (who she didn’t know that were in other tutor groups) were told by the HOY that they were moving tutor groups and here is your new timetable. My DD walked out in shock where she looked at her timetable and all her classes have changed too.

She is really devastated and spent the whole evening in tears. She is now away from her best friend and other friends that she made in the first few weeks. She was given no reason for it. (And she was too shocked to ask) She said a new girl has started in the tutor group (last week) and the tutor mentioned he has too many in the group now. DD said she is not struggling in the lessons nor has she found it easy. She took a maths and English test and got very similar scores to her friends in the class.

She was so anxious about starting secondary because a girl in her previous class had bullied her, but luckily she was put in a different tutor group and was never in the same class. Now her new tutor group is with this girl and she’s worrying the classes will probably be the same too☹️

She will also have a later lunch setting, so will not even see her friends for lunch.

There have been no issues with DD since she started, her old tutor even emailed me telling me how pleased she was to have DD in her tutor group as she had looked after a few children who were struggling and being overwhelmed. She really liked her tutor and found her really approachable, she has previously met her new tutor during transition and didn’t like him very much.

I called the school, but there was no answer.

I’ve emailed the HOY asking for the reason DD was moved.

I’m just gutted that my DD appeared to have settled in school and now she’s saying she doesn’t want to go.

Anyone with any secondary experience who can offer any advice.

TIA

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JellySlice · 25/09/2018 21:25

Any news?

Tinkie25 · 26/09/2018 19:11

Finally spoke to HOY today. Apparently they did do a maths test and my DD got a lower score than average for the group. Whatever maths group you’re in, your in that group for all your other subjects! They are testing again just before half term so may move some people round again😳😳

Luckily DD is not in the same group as the girl she had problems with and she was one of the few that also moved.

Dd has made another friend in her class and that seems to have helped her.

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MrsChollySawcutt · 26/09/2018 19:30

Glad you got some answers from the school OP and that your DD is doing OK.

That's an odd way of running tutor groups, sounds like they are effectively streaming them based on maths ability.

Tinkie25 · 26/09/2018 19:54

Yes it appears that way. English and maths are on ability, but other groups follow maths. HOY said it’s the first year they have done this. I’m suspecting probably the last.

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elkiedee · 26/09/2018 20:08

It seems an odd decision. In my last year of middle school, equivalent to year 8 now, we were effectively streamed for English, separate sets for Maths and French but the English group for everything else. Streaming for everything except English on the basis of Maths seems a bit strange.

I think there should have been some forewarning as well, 3 weeks in seems like a tricky time to do this and without much apparent explanation.

Glad she's not in the same group as the bully anyway. and it's great that she was introduced to her friend's friend. What a lovely idea.

JellySlice · 26/09/2018 21:00

So tutor groups are set according to maths ability? Bizarre. And a recipe for disaster, I would have thought.

Tinkie25 · 26/09/2018 21:15

it has had a high turn round of staff in the past few years and three different heads in as many years. I think the new head is making his mark. So far parents do not seem impressed.

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montenuit · 27/09/2018 12:53

sounds terrible tbh.
So your dd has effectively been moved down a whole stream based on one maths test?! I'd be outraged.

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