Greenginger, as i have said upthread, what matters - to me - is the common good.
I don't want to create a 'grammar in every town for the top 10%', because that means that the other 90% get a worse deal, and there is no net gain ... and the creation of an educational 'underclass' that this country could do without, while the progress of that 'selected' top 10% is unlikely to be greatly improved..
I don't want the government to be focusing money, effort and time on grammar schools. I want it to be investing in all schools, on teacher retention, workload and pay, on coherent qualifications for all and on excellent education from the earliest possible age for the most deprived. As a result, I also want performance measures for schools that understand context, and recognise excellence in context, rather than presuming that all children are identikit units, and i want these to be so highly publicised that nobody will judge a school by its absolute results or think that it is 'better' because it has good raw results based on compliant pupils with motivated parents.
I want proper, well funded comprehensive schools that cater for all needs, with fair admissions criteria that promote the needs of the most disadvantaged in society. I want them to have buildings that are well maintained and secure, and revenue streams that are predictable.
I want parents to get involved, to become governors, to demand money from the government and excellent behaviour from schools. i want appropriate specialist units for those with disabilities and behavioural difficulties, co-located with comprehensives so that integration is possible if in the best interests of the child.
I want teachers to be respected, but only insofar as they do a good job.
If my own children are in a school that is marginally worse as a result, I will regard it as a price worth paying for them emerging into a world where there is a smaller educational underclass, a little less 'them' and 'us', a little less 'me, me, me' and a little more 'this is for the common good'. As a parent, it is my job to fill the gaps - because I can - and I expect the school to fill these same gaps for those who have parents who can't.
Yes, i am an idealist, and proud of it.