Posted this in Chat last week, but want to know what people on this thread think.
DS has applied to three comprehensives. Both first and second choice schools are allowed to select 10%/15% on the basis of ability in music/performing arts. He got a full scholarship offer from his first choice school and a bursary offer from the second.
Our second choice (the bursary offer) has invited him to come to the school today at 4pm. This is (quoting from letter) a 'celebratory Bursary Tea Party' the purpose of which is for him to 'meet other successful Bursary students' and current year 7 and 8 bursary students to find out about the programme of activities for the next few months and years (they have all sorts of stuff on before they even start in year 7 - barbecues, meet ups etc).
The thing is - it's our second choice, and we don't know if we're going to get an offer from our first choice. The letter makes us feel that ds has definitely got a place at the second choice school..... In which case, do they know he hasn't got a place at his first choice? Or has he got a place at both? But then if he's got a higher ranked school on his CAF then surely the second choice school will have been told he's not taking up his place there?
Without going on a boast-a-thon, ds is pretty talented. He's not at the standard that a lot of private school scholarship students are at (grade 5/6 minimum in one or two instruments) because we haven't pushed him, but he's got distinctions or one mark below for all his grades (he's grade 4 in two instruments), and has placed first in almost every piano competition he's entered right back to when he started. He's a real performer.
I'm blathering now. What's going on do you think?
Have to say, it's a weird thing of the school to do, to host an event the week before places are allocated.