My dbro has a Cambridge maths degree
He was educated at the same minor, non selective private school that I was for free on a scholarship.
The last person they had sent to Oxbridge was me 8 years before in a different subject.
You can bet that he did not have the quality of teaching that Westminster pupils have. There was no private tutoring involved either but he really has a mathematical mind just exactly as a poster up thread described they are looking for.
He does see the world in numbers. I always imagine that it's like the matrix for him. He works out equations for things in his head just for fun. Whilst we were stuck in traffic on the m25 once he was applying fluid dynamics to the traffic flow. He is a brilliant, self taught chess player and taught himself computer programming too.
I really hope that there will always be places for people with a genuine talent and passion for a subject at Oxbridge and that they are able to select these people whatever background they come from. That is the reason for interviewing everyone isn't it?
So to me it's not a huge travesty if some of the Westminster pupils don't get in. You should not be able to buy it.
I would love my own kids to go because I had a wonderful time and it has opened many doors for me but only if a) they want to and b) they get in on merit. I think it's terribly sad if children or their parents think they have failed if they don't get to Oxbridge. It was a punt for me. Worth a try but if it hadn't worked out I'm sure I would have been happy with any of my other choices. I did a few extra practice STEP papers but that was all. If I had felt that years of expenditure on private tutors was riding on it I would have been terrified.
Have things changed? Do normal kids from non-selective schools still get in these days without years of hot house tutoring?