I was reading this idly and remembering how expensive years 12 &13 were. OK they get loans and maybe bursaries once they're in but whilst still at school it's really down to parents to shell out for trains, fees, overnight stays etc. and it is quite frightening how it all mounts up.
I have been on the committee of a local charity which gives financial support to students in FE and persuaded the members that support should also be made available to students in Y13 for this reason. When I looked at how much it had cost to 'launch' DD it made sense to try to help students coming up to the same stage. Such charities exist all over the place and are worth seeking out.
DD is at Imperial and won the scholarship for three years tuition at RCM. It didn't impinge at all on her main studies. She really loves playing in ICSO and was marvellously well taught by her RCM teacher. The standard and range of music at Imperial is amazing.
The audition for the scholarship was another expense involving an overnight stay - and you apply for that before you know if you're going to Imperial so it was an added stress in Y13, financially and emotionally. It also involves writing another CV in the form of a letter. I believe 5 scholarships are awarded each year, sometimes fewer, depending on the standard of applicants.
It was worth it - she's in clover. She was torn between music and science, having been at a junior conservatoire, and became dead set on having the best of both worlds this way. She's surrounded by scientists who are also marvellously talented musicians and has the emotional release from the stress of the course that music gives her.
I hope this helps if you're in a dilemma.