Thank you for the replies/advice/questions. I should have provided more info in my post so here are my responses.
She is 12. Looking for a school for 2015 for Year 9. Guardian is in Devon.
Too late for Benenden. List for 2015 and 2016 is now closed. Waiting list for 2016.
Parents want a SS school.
She is an all rounder, good worker, team player although prefers tennis/swimming to team sports. A B+ type of girl so Wycombe Abbey not an option.
Have read here that Woldingham full boarders are mainly international students and that most girls are flexi? We want to avoid weekends surrounded by too many international students of one nationality.
Ashford Kent and Eastbourne College are co-ed so not an option.
Tudor Hall is on the list as I understand they do not offer flexi boarding. Planning to arrange a visit in June so we will see what their accommodation looks like.
I will give St Mary's Calne a call to see what their numbers are. However, I thought they may be too selective?