Thank you both & Really sorry, I thought I had replied to your last comments 
I've had to step back from this for a while as realised there was little more I could do until I had more news from the LGO & I've had to deal with a very ill DD, which I firmly blame on the stress she is feeling over this ridiculous HS limbo we are in - all her friends are planning & chattering & visiting their new schools - she can't & though putting a brave face on it, she's upset scared & it's affecting her badly
since getting the news we've had the 2 weeks hospital stay for a stress related intestinal blockage & colitis, followed by her going back to school & then quickly coming down with viral laryngitis, which triggered an asthma flare up, which then became a nasty chest infection - she's only just made it back to school this week & still has no voice
It's been a nightmare & I feel like I was becoming so crushed under the weight of this mess that it's making me ill too & had to try & step back, so that I could be well enough to cope with nursing DD, but I need to get my head out of the sand & get on with it.
Update...
A good friend suggested I contact AMAZE, which is a charity for disabled DCs - I've handed over a duplicate copy of all the evidence I submitted to them & their legal team have now looked over it - the response was that I had a "very strong case" & that they will help me with a rehearing - so that's great,
I did feel a huge sense of weight lifted when I heard that, though that was short lived, seeing poor DD going through it so much just makes me want to scream at the unfairness of all this & I now also realise that it's the same woman who was the LAs rep at our hearing, who I've been told I have to deal with as regards getting DD accepted as a medical need case on the schools waiting list - I worry this is a conflict of interest, as surely them accepting DD as medical need now, blows a big hole in their case for not accepting her at appeal stage -
I have already had to email saying that I felt that them just using my initial enquiry email, with one attached medical letter to prove she had a diagnosis as my application for a medical need waiting list place, unfairly prejudiced our chances - I asked to be able to send my evidence etc directly to the CCP, but this was refused, though I did get a postal address - I have asked AMAZE for advice on this, but bar that I do have strong medical need for this school, I've had no actual response to the request for advice as to what to add - just chasing this up now, but the conflict of interest with the LA worries me a lot, so I need to get this more than right.
I have now had the LGO send me a copy of my appeal hearing minutes - & the LAs response, neutral letter seems we got a unanimous no, which scares me - though some key parts of my argument missing from the minutes & they clearly haven't understood DDs medical issues - the minutes for example say she has been ill for 3 years - when I said she had suffered almost 3 years of back to back significant injuries, often needing crutches, lots bullying related, others due to the poor behaviour & rule breaking of other kids - all in school injuries - DDs other symptoms are ongoing & predate this by years. They also don't seem to get that the anxiety is directly linked to the bullying she has experienced - yes it's a symptom, but as she told the phycologist herself - she's had 7 years of ongoing bullying - THAT made her ill
I've asked the LGO for a little time to respond with my comments & I'm just emailing AMAZE now for advice on how/what I need to say
Feel sick to my stomach again too