KittiesInsane - DS is at one of those comps (which by reputation at least) are as rare as hen's teeth.
The school does have a good record on exam results - that's been confirmed by the descriptions in this thread of make might be defined as good - and it has a fantastic SEN dept (according to Ofsted).
(Perhaps our children are at the same school?)
TBH I didn't even know that DS had a SEN at the time of application, I just thought that he was struggling with the appearance of his handwriting, and perhaps not writing enough to show all he knows. If I'd known last year that he'd hit more than a small obstacle and that he does, in fact, have a SEN, then I'd have perhaps taken some interest in the SEN department on the open day. So, its just incredible luck that he seems to have landed up in the right place.
He is also very intelligent and, so far, he has done very well at school (with his intelligence masking much of the effects of disability). However, from what I've read, the dysgraphia will hold him back more and more over the next few years.
The school will not accept private assessment reports so DS is on a waiting list for assessment by the SEN dept which should be done in the next few weeks. At the moment, i am waiting for that to happen and then to hear how the school will support DS. i have no idea of what they will do, or what is possible. All I have is the head of the SEN department's assurance that he'll be looked after.
Upthread someone said that there are lots of reasons why bright children don't achieve their potential. In DS's case, i can already think of one: DS is very aware of his difficulties and it has shaken his self confidence badly.