Son has gone to a second order day school in London, but where imv the maths ( his subject) is prob better than Winco's, although at win co all do it to pre u level.
He is in the top sets and there finds some interesting friends. Tbh I think he would prob find more at Winco , given he likes to test out intellectual ideas and never never lets an argument go. I would say that not all the teachers are top rate teachers ( having a phd does not automatically make you a star at teaching, let it be said). But they are mostly pretty good, and mostly understand my son to a t. Those who claim he is really interested in their subject are those he rates less.....
The school is good at sport, excels in one sport and is big enough for Ds to get into teams.
It is good at art, drama, quite good at music, has a poultry club as well as a poker club, and turns out nice well balanced young men. Of Ds 's class, only 4 of them I reckon have both sets of grandparents born in the UK; one of the things I really like about it is that he comes across people from all backgrounds and nations, because his generation is going to have to compete globally and they know it.
In the lower school the pastoral care is outstanding. In the middle school they are,a bit more hands off but still pretty good. And their SEN provision is exceptionally good.
There are inevitablly some things I would change, but it us a far less pressured environment than some of the other London day schools we looked at. And I like that. And the scruffiness. They can relax.
And they don't feel ashamed of having families. I saw one member of the sixth pick up his baby sister and cuddle her, in the school car park, and every one else just regards it as rather nice. That doesn't mean that you don't have the teenage/ parent problem but they can show affection.