Funny story, I actually was awarded the Kane bursary, and discovered this while trying to google the Kane family, during prep time at harrow school.
Rache101, I don't know much about you, but I knew when I read this thread that I couldn't just let it go by unnoticed. It's great to see a mother with such great determination and obvious support for her son and I wish you both the best.
What I know of the application process, and I warn you that I may leave out specifics because of our school's code of conduct, isn't that great. I know that there is a selection process that narrows it down to three or so, but you'll already know that as your son has gone in and sat the exams, and that from there it really is a big guessing game. If you had asked me when I left the examinations and interviews if I thought I'd got in, I would have told you no, the two other finalists were wither incredibly gifted athletically, or musically and academically. My main selling points were my academics (10 A's, 2 A's, predicted 11A's but that's Eng Lit) and my public speaking/debating (Jack Petchey Speak Out grand finalist and Whitmore debating society). It sounds like your son has a great mix so he certianly has a great chance.
What I felt they were looking for most in hindsight, and I'm really sorry this didn't find you before the interview, is a genuine enthusiasm for the school. I was honest with them, told them that I hadn't been involved in sports for quite a while and that what I was looking for was an environment where I could get back into sport. That went down well. I think the interview stage was possibly more important than the examination stage, although that is entirely my opinion and as you said, there has been a change in senior management since Headmaster Lennon interviewed me.
On an interesting note, I don't know any Kane scholars who have ended up in Moreton's, the two so far that I definetely know of (inc. myself) have ended up in Lyon's and Headmaster's, though really it is of little difference as they are all great places to be.
I found out that I had received the bursary in early March (same day I got my copy of Dragon Age II, that I can now only play in the holidays...) and around a month after that I found out which house I was going to.
The reason it's so hard to get information on is that there have only been two years so far where they have offered the Kane bursary, and I'm just glad I could get the information out there.
There will still be a small percentage of the fees to pay, but it's nothing to worry about when you consider how much you'll save on food and the ilk.
Friends coming up to the hill... is slightly frowned upon. They have no qualms with family visiting on Saturday and Sunday but they can be iffy about just inviting your friends up, obviously you'll be involved in sports games and there is no harm in inviting them to those, but just inviting them up and 'taking the day off' isn't smart. If only because it would be a slight waste of the resources that the school has, ecspecially when considering that they will get the chance to see friends every exeat and all the holidays, so I'd say home matches early.
So good luck again, I wish you the best, I know it's a difficult process and the wait is the worst thing, but just hold on and hope for good news. And if not, the sixth forms around Harrow are getting better each year as it is, I was going to go to Whitmore Sixth Form if not Harrow (Saint Dominics turned me down for being atheist).
Also, for those people that used this thread as leverage for a public school debate, this isn't the right place. This was an earnest call for help from somebody who wanted honest help. I respect your right to an opinion, but the amount of useful posts in this thread can be counted on one hand, that's not useful for the OP, and really that's what sites like this are for.
Hope I helped.