TalkinPeace2,
"My problem with selective schools is that there is then no chance for progression by the children who have been excluded from it."
That really isn't true though. The non-grammar schools still contain a wide range of ability levels and if children sho struggle with a subject in year 7 suddenly get better at it in year 9, that can be catered for.
Also, some kids who go to secondary moderns end up transferring to grammar school for sixth form. So coming out and going to university, they'll be for all intents and purposes like someone who's been at the grammar all along. And some just get good A Levels at their secondary modern and then go to uni.
I think part of the problem is that a lot of what you're saying used to be true: When the system was first devised, failing a kid in their 11+ was largely "writing them off" for any kind of professional future. It isn't really like that any more - it's more just making a judgment about what kind of education is suitable for them now, while acknowledging that anything can happen in the future.
But a lot of parents probably know the system from two or three decades ago, and still think of it like that.
"Grammars "bright motivated children"
Not from what I read on here - and as there are only 164 of them, a fair proportion of parents must be posting.
All I read about is middle class mums spending a fortune on tutoring and cramming."
That is certainly a factor, though again it depends on the area and the number of grammars around. But I can tell you where I am there are certainly children who get into grammar without tutoring.
Besides, even with all the tutoring in the world a child still needs to be reasonably bright to get into a grammar school, and very bright to get into the kind of ultra-competitive ones you've probably read about. So what you say doesn't really negate the fact that those children need an education that is suitable for them too.
"The big problem with education policy in the UK is that it is made by people who live in central London which has an utterly dysfunctional system with a huge number of tiny LEAS (all employing multiple people on high salaries out of funds that would be better used in schools) each with different entry requirements creating the illusion of choice but actually a strait jacket based on ability to navigate the system."
Aye, there's some truth in that.
"Out here in the sticks its far simpler - catchment, one other, private - take your pick. Done and dusted."
So if the solution to not being happy about the local comp is going private, how on Earth is that fairer than state grammar schools? You're rejecting a system based primarily on selection by ability but corrupted somewhat in practice by ability to pay, in favour of one based ENTIRELY on ability to pay.
There's certainly a lot to be said for everyone just sending their kids to the local comp and being done with it. But given the vast differences in wealth and family attitudes in this country, it would be absurd to imagine that that would ensure a fair system with equal educational quality for all.