The point is, I really don't think anyone is seriously, sensibly, meaningfully thinking about the "balance of harms". When the word 'compromise' is used, it usually means someone else must compromise.
I did a quick google:
5.4 million asthmatics in the U.K.
3.9 million with diabetes
13% of the uk population are BAME
8,769,122 over the age of 70
I could go on finding numbers for 'the vulnerable', but surely that makes the point. Now add in the numbers of those who love these people and don't actually want to see them dead or harmed.
Also, consider the fact that asthmatics, for example, mostly live long normal lives. For people to find themselves suddenly relegated to an 'unhealthy' group, where your peers seem to think you should have reduced rights, is really staggering.
I suppose I'm wondering what it will take for the UK to arrive at a gut-sickening, vomit-inducing realisation that it's not ever going to be normal until vaccine or cure, and you can't just easily get a country moving again.
If homeschooling for the vulnerable is proposed, you need to make it equitable. Laptops for those who don't have them; teachers providing support to parents who are not qualified; employers of parents who are doing the teaching given financial support by the government; making it illegal to fire parents who need to homeschool. etc etc.
You can't just say - 'you kids get an education by coming to school, and those of you who are 'unhealthy' don't'. Because that's the arguments isn't it? That we can't deny our kids an education? Or ... is that only true for the 'healthy'?
Nor can you ethically say, 'we know you're at risk, but come to school and maybe get seriously sick'. That's where I think we are currently, and I have issues with that.
Compromise - that cares about all - means accepting precautions being put in place that will be fucking inconvenient and irritating to many. Some of those measures might even need to be "fluff" as Arcadia called them. Because if that's what it takes to make someone feel safe (which gets society moving again) then so be it.
But, oh man, the British can whinge for Britain if, god forbid, they are asked to wear a mask, queue outside a shop, forgo a pint etc etc. There's a serious absence here of collective civic responsibility - like in Asia, or Africa, for example.
But if you really want to get out again - a different normal - then Britain needs to dig deep to find a sense of collective responsibility.