Tabularasa:
"And my child being told I am 'only a gardener and not the Head Gardener' IS something I am concerned about and any parent would be, surely?"
Nope...my DC have been told all sorts of ridiculous things through school, Xmas is leaving the Christ out of Christmas, potatoes aren't vegetables, hugely dodgy genetics...
So honestly, no, the while head gardener thing doesn't bother me in the slightest."
So, leaving aside your comparison of potato misinformation and parental rights/authority (head-desk) my point is:
It bothers ME. And Lots and Lots and Lots of other parents.
And there is no opt out. And there is no complaints system.
And the Supreme Court have just raised a number of concerns.
So, the fact it doesn't bother you is hugely relevant to you, but only partly relevant to the discussion about the Legislation.
Just like my feelings are also only partly relevant.
But I have no opt out and no complaints system.
So that is one hugely dodgy piece of legislation.
Viper
I am very interested that you were involved in initial consultation and feel that what has resulted is worlds away. also that it is very poorly fitted to parents of complex needs children.
When you say:
"What has actually happened is nothing to do with that initial consultation and worse yet, GIRFEC and SHANARRI are nigh impossible to apply to children with complex needs so in fact it has just become another more difficult layer of crap to deal with. Most importantly there is another person involved whose rank trumps parent - utter madness.
Makes it a hell of a lot easier for any funding requests to be refused on account of the child and family not fitting the tick boxes though..."
I wish I had a LIKE button for your post(s).
THIS, of yours that I quote above, is the whole raison d'etre of NP.