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What monthly income do couples need for a comfortable retirement?

157 replies

sha777 · 03/06/2026 11:31

Hi.
I'm just trying to work out what we need money-wise in retirement.
Can anyone give us a real-life experience of what they live on.
Our requirements are quite simple we have no debt or mortgage.
Couple of holidays abroad per year and like to eat out once a week .
Were hoping £2500 a month will give us that.

OP posts:
tengreencats · 05/06/2026 01:10

HarrietofFire · 04/06/2026 19:00

It’s leasehold from the local authority. Ex council flat. Ground rent is £10 per year. Service charge is estimated at £300 per year and for the last five years has been between £250 and £280.

Oh dear they're not very committed to the upkeep then are they?

keepswimming38 · 05/06/2026 03:17

@Papyrophileyes no one is really talking about the continuing financial burden of younger adults that our age group are still supporting. In Leeds now it’s almost impossible to find a rental that doesn’t ask for a garantor. She’s 26, reliable, has a decent job, always pays, but still all these companies demand a garantor. Supporting your children beyond 21 now has to be factored in to retirement budgeting when 10-15 years ago it didn’t.

Fraughtmum · 05/06/2026 09:45

parachutegirl · 04/06/2026 11:01

These figures are really surprising.

We easily manage on less than 3k a month and we do not skimp at all. We have no mortgage but I wouldn’t expect most retired people to have one either.

We go out regularly, go abroad a couple of times a year plus trips in the UK and we often have money left over. What are people spending money on?

We will be spending about £25k on holidays/ breaks this year. Eat out weekly in nice restaurants. And buy quality food. I have gym membership, monthly facials, massages, hair every 5 weeks. 12 gigs booked and theatre at least twice a month.
But we can! In 10 years at 77 we might not be as mobile so Im enjoying life to the full now.

AmberTigerEyes · 05/06/2026 10:50

The figures are low if anything.
I think they are aimed towards 45yr olds who are mid career and are 22-23yrs from state pension age.

The retirees living comfortably on £3k/mo now would need at least £5k/mo to have the same standard of living in 20yrs.

If you are younger, say 25, and in the first half of your work life, you’d need to be aiming for around £10k/mo income to match the living standard of retirees living on £3k/mo today.

tengreencats · 05/06/2026 13:20

keepswimming38 · 05/06/2026 03:17

@Papyrophileyes no one is really talking about the continuing financial burden of younger adults that our age group are still supporting. In Leeds now it’s almost impossible to find a rental that doesn’t ask for a garantor. She’s 26, reliable, has a decent job, always pays, but still all these companies demand a garantor. Supporting your children beyond 21 now has to be factored in to retirement budgeting when 10-15 years ago it didn’t.

Edited

This is a good point too. I draw down more from my pension investment to be able to help young relatives with certain things. They need it now not when I die.

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:27

FredaMountfitchet · 04/06/2026 11:15

Expenditure needs a realistic review and honest amounts considered
House - repairs redecoration and just those things that happen storm damage to roof
boiler stopping working
Are you planning to sell & downsize?
Rent out a room?
Medical expenses ? Would you want to go private for your hip or cataracts ?
Dentistry if private
Gas/ oil/ electric
Household and car insurance creeping ever upward
Council tax
Car service tyres maintenance and your insurance rises as you get older .
Clothing maybe you are frugal but you’ll still need new pants shoes and waterproof coat now and again .
Haircuts
Petrol / diesel
Any pets ? Insurance vet bills and feeding
Groceries ever increasing
Enjoy gardening ? Can be a frugal hobby but can also be very expensive .
Someone to help in garden if it’s large and gets overwhelming?
Replacing things like washing machine even a new kettle is around £50 these days
£3000 sound ok to me my sister is so frugal and lives well on around £1500 a month I couldn’t possibly but we are all different .
The key is budget and being honest and accurate .
I spend £100 a month on my hair my husband spends £200 on fishing .. both still working and high earners not an issue but would be expecting to reduce costs if retiring .
Good luck and happy retirement

£100 per month on your hair?

tengreencats · 05/06/2026 13:29

I get my hair done every 8 weeks and it is 200. It's a typical amount in a decent place for colour and styling.

TheKittenswithMittens · 05/06/2026 13:31

The tax threshold needs to be much higher for pensioners.

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:32

tengreencats · 05/06/2026 13:29

I get my hair done every 8 weeks and it is 200. It's a typical amount in a decent place for colour and styling.

I'm shocked. Mine is £100 every 8 weeks. I suppose all these things are dependant on where you live.

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:33

TheKittenswithMittens · 05/06/2026 13:31

The tax threshold needs to be much higher for pensioners.

Are you talking about the personal allowance?

BorgQueen · 05/06/2026 13:33

Nobody is going to be stupid enough to think £3k now will be worth the same in 10/20/30 years time 🙄
Financial projections usually include inflation and rising pension contributions.
I’ve built a Gilt ladder inside my Sipp that starts paying out in 2034 for 5 years paying an average of 4.5% a year in coupons until then but I’ve also factored in inflation so I bought 30% more in ££s so hopefully they will still be worth the equivalent of £5k a year in today’s money. It’s a gamble that inflation won’t be over 3% a year but it was much cheaper doing it my way than buying index linked gilts that pay virtually no coupons, at least I can invest my 4.5% coupons and get further growth on them.

TheKittenswithMittens · 05/06/2026 13:36

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:33

Are you talking about the personal allowance?

yes

TheKittenswithMittens · 05/06/2026 13:37

Upgrade the triple lock to a quadruple lock, where the personal tax allowance goes up for pensioners.

coulditbeme2323 · 05/06/2026 13:39

8kpcm

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:40

TheKittenswithMittens · 05/06/2026 13:37

Upgrade the triple lock to a quadruple lock, where the personal tax allowance goes up for pensioners.

I agree! Especially for people living on the state pension as it shouldn't be taxed but is near getting there.

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:40

coulditbeme2323 · 05/06/2026 13:39

8kpcm

8k?

😱

coulditbeme2323 · 05/06/2026 13:41

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:40

8k?

😱

I think so

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:41

coulditbeme2323 · 05/06/2026 13:41

I think so

Why would you need all that with no mortgage or debt?

Tel12 · 05/06/2026 13:42

Yes, of course you can live comfortably on that income and a lot of people do. Your expenses tend to taper of the older you get. You need to draw up a basic budget, see what you've left and then budget for your wants as opposed to needs.

coulditbeme2323 · 05/06/2026 13:43

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:41

Why would you need all that with no mortgage or debt?

Retirement is the time to enjoy yourself.

tengreencats · 05/06/2026 13:45

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:32

I'm shocked. Mine is £100 every 8 weeks. I suppose all these things are dependant on where you live.

I don't know why you are shocked. There are endless threads on Style and Beauty on this topic. It depends on where you live, what kind of salon you use , Senior stylist or a junior, one colour or several etc. It's the same with eating out prices. Some parts of the country are much cheaper.

MrsPapillon · 05/06/2026 13:45

We have a retirement income of £4K a month. We have no mortgage, two cars, two foreign holidays a year, a ‘weekend’ (usually 2-3 days midweek) away every 4-6 weeks. We go to concerts and the theatre, and eat out fairly regularly. I feel extremely comfortable, though according to the ‘experts’ we only have a “moderate” income, not “comfortable”.

I have never felt so comfortable in my life, even though our income is a fraction of what it used to be, since our DCs are now self-sufficient.

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:46

coulditbeme2323 · 05/06/2026 13:43

Retirement is the time to enjoy yourself.

I can enjoy myself for less! It's all subjective though.

Differentforgirls · 05/06/2026 13:47

tengreencats · 05/06/2026 13:45

I don't know why you are shocked. There are endless threads on Style and Beauty on this topic. It depends on where you live, what kind of salon you use , Senior stylist or a junior, one colour or several etc. It's the same with eating out prices. Some parts of the country are much cheaper.

I'm in Scotland. Sounds like a rip off to me.

Allseeingallknowing · 05/06/2026 13:49

More than enough!