Although the OP has said they are not returning, I just wanted to post to reassure people that you don’t have to have megabucks to have a happy retirement. I agree with these posters.
BorgQueen: At the moment, pre-retirement, we are living quite happily on £20k as we are shoving as much as we can into pensions
Badbadbunny: I just don't recognise the "profession" projections of needing £60k plus per year
Coming up to retirement, I started keeping a spreadsheet of our annual spending. Last year, this is the breakdown.
Utilities, insurance, broadband, council tax £5,600
Food, cleaning stuff, toiletries £3,800
Running two cars £2,300
Holidays, meals out, hobbies £5,000
Clothes, hair, optician, dentist £1,000
Garden and DIY etc £3,000
Gifts, charity £1,300
Total for the two of us, £22k, so I guess we are frugal, but I don’t really feel it. We have a nice house and garden, which makes a big difference. We live well, with plenty of long weekends away, although no holidays abroad. Obviously, you need to factor in large expenditures – ours is a second-hand car every ten years! However, we are mainly vegetarian, grow lots of our own veg, and have cheap hobbies.
I too am in my early 60s, and think Pemba’s post sums it up. I really feel for young families, and also single pensioners, as you save so much money if you are coupled up. Luckily, we have savings, but who knows what is round the corner, particularly as we are getting older.