Okay so found some messages on my husbands phone around christmas time, between him and a woman I already had some suspicions about due to the a amount of time he spoke to her on facebook.
They were 'very friendly' text, pets names etc talking about meeting up for coffee. I called her an asked what was going on, she denied anything untoward and said they were just friends and has been meeting for almost a year. I was not happy about this and questioned my husband who said the same as her but I was unsettled by the fact he had been meeting this woman for a year secretly and moved out for a week to think things over. I went back and asked him to stop this 'friendship' it was not appropriate for amarried man to be meeting up with a weoman regularly discussing our marriage etc behind my back. WE made a decision on our anniversary to put ALOT of difficulties behind us and make a go of this marriage. Yesterday 5 months later I walked through the town centre with a friend of mine and saw my husband and this woman walking down the road together. Obvsioualy I was very upset,again last night he says she is just his friend, he said 'he had found someone he could channel into and who understood him'
This statment broke my heart. I really dont know what to do, I feel I have had enough and this is out of order