Womans Aid

[Charlotteswebb]

Can someone tell me how Womans Aid work? Do you just chat to them on the phone?

Thanks Nickname,I have re-read the thread and it has helped a great deal.This feels like grief,it keeps swelling over in me in waves.I am having trouble focusing on work/school/children..Everything seems blurry from when I wake up until when I fall asleep.Its all so final and frightening.

Yes, you need to give yourself permission to grieve. You're letting go of the hope that someone can wave a magic wand and make the relationship better, and that is a sad thing to do.

of course you are grieving. you are bring an end to a relationship. however soiled it was.
you also loved this man. it doesn't matter that our head tells us it is wrong, your heart is stil telling you that you love him.

The guilt is totally natural. you will have it for quite some time. and for various things.

but eventually the guilt will subside and instead it will be replaced with the most overwhelming sense of pride. pride that you are now free, that you took the most enormous life changing step for you and yoru dc's.

I don't know you and i am massivly proud of you.

please do keep us informed of how you are getting on.

G, you have put me in tears.But good strong ones.

sorry to make you cry but glad they are good and strong.

well done.

CWebb, well done, I am so pleased for you. I've been keeping an eye out for you and this is the best news we could have hoped for.

Stay strong, stay steady and we'll be here to hold your hand.

Well done Charlotte I too am very proud of you. Just keep strong. I promise you, the view from the other side of that dark cloud you are now living under is wonderfully breathtaking. Just keep going, keep moving forward and soon you will free and you will be happy xxx