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I know many will hate me, but I am trying to put things right so please bear with me.
I have had a relationship with a married man. It has ended. His wife has been in contact with me and I have answered her questions, and actually she really feels for me, and we are on reasonable terms because I have told her the truth. Her husband won't talk to her about it, and won't tell her the truth about anything much. Her husband has lied and cheated even during their counselling session when he was asking to meet me.
She is at the point where she has asked him to move out. He says he wants to make it work with her, although doesn't want to stop contact with me.
I just want advice really, I am going to stop all contact, but his wife keeps texting me, asking me questions and wanting the truth.
I know there will be many opinions, but I just want to know whether I should tell her the whole 'affair story' as she wants, she will never get it from him, or shall I just leave alone? Leave her to work out what kind of man he is and live with what little information she has already.....??? Maybe they have something to rebuild on what she knows. She wants answers and wants them today.
I hope WWIFN will give her opinion on whether a wife really always needs to know the whole story or live with what has been found out from the husband, however small that is..???
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nearlyyy · 02/05/2010 07:12
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