really quick YES OR NO please?

[stickyj]

DH talks for hours at night to a lady on weird radio show. Thought she was just strange like him. Read his stuff last night, they're talking about my marriage, her realtionships, sexual innuendo etc etc . She wants to "look into his eys"

YES/NO?

Acceptable or harmless flirting?

Grace if you look at the OP's previous posts you will see what I'm refering to. Very, very sad.

OK, against my usual policy (=take threads at face value as posted), I had a very quick look at this thread.

stickyj, if you're still checking this: I would dare to suggest that you've been 'conditioned' by a signally self-centred partner to accept damaging behaviours as normal. Being creative is neither a reason, nor an excuse, for treating one's family as nothing more than personal services, to be used and/or diminished at will. Other people are human beings, with the right to respect & consideration - that includes you and your children.

Did you say "my marriage" because it feels like you're the only one in it?

No

no no no no no no no.

i think it's harmless, i have had lots of internet friends and it sounds just the same to me. but i don't know about this 'radio' thingy so i could have the wrong end of the stick.

i'd be furious if someone tried to cut me off from a friend i met online. just sounds like normal convo to me dear.

my xh did similar. a lot. with a lot of women but then turned out to be one in particular...it felt like cheating to me..i couldnt take it. it did end our marriage cos i felt cheated on, so, i would have to say unnaceptable. sorry

no

no

NOT harmless....

No!

Forget the rest - I'd be completely enraged by the fact he was sending pictures of the children to a complete stranger in this day and age!!!!!!! Worth having it out with him just for that alone!