kissing - new man. Is this odd?

[confidencecrisis]

Had a date on saturday that ended well with a wonderful kiss.

Well, i thought it was quite nice anyway. My sister, who after asking for all the gory details declared it was ' well weird'.

so, being a little bit bored and with nothing else to do i thought id ask what mn thought.

So, he pulled me close for the first kiss. Nice, no tongues. Just nice lips, firm, but not to hard. PUlled back, smiled and kissed again.

Gradually working up to a bit more tongue.

Nice.. very nice. No slobber and not feeling like i was kissing a washing machine, or anything else horrible.

He then proceded to kiss, my neck, ears, eyelids, forehead, top of head, top of chest. Not boobs. In random orders guiding my head gently so he could get at where he wanted, always coming back to my lips, then going elsewhere. then coming back.

But not rushed, not like he was trying to get anything else, like he was just enjoying the kissing.

I have never been kissed like that ever, i thought it was, just delicious... and am seeing him for more of the same ( i hope) soon.

But my sister said it was weird... and that he must be a weirdo to kiss my eyelids.

so, what do you all think?

Sorry OP, didn't mean to post this here! I've started it as a new thread

sparky where did you start your thread

anniegetyourgun.
what are you on about. My sis and i love a good gossip. She wanted all the gory details.. and igave them to her.
Shes not going to give me a funny look next time i see her.. why would she?

sparkly bint - now coming to your thread.

No no, my sister wouldn't give me a funny look - her friends would!

Any updates?

Ooh come on with that update OP.

Sounds bloody wonderful, confidencecrisis. Just lovely. Agree with the poster who said hang in there with the kissing for a while, just because it's so yummy and it might become hurried or briefer or less intense once sex is in the frame. But it might not.

The odds are he's good in bed ... so, was he?!

PMSL "cawing like a raven" Disenchanted3, you know him too then?

pah - no update.

Saw him friday and he left early ( says a suspicious me )
ONly a briefe kiss in the car before i dropped him off at the station.

which was nice, but not quite on par with last weeks.

spoke to him sat and not heard anything since. though we did arrange a date for wednesday.

If/when i do get a shag, ill let you know

Perhaps he read this thread on mumsnet and realised that he is being gossiped about and didn't like it!

ohh sounds lovely - I love those kind of kisses.

When I read that your sister thought it was weird, I was so hoping he hadn't lobbed some saliva into your mouth, or something equally gross - remember that thread once [boke]

Agree with rumbled and other poster - exploratory kissing is the best fun!

He sounds like a 'feathery stroker'. Marian Keyes devotess will know what I mean, otherwise look her up on youtube talking about it she is very funny.

She basicaly reckons some women love the feathery stroker type with all soft exploratory touching and teasing, whereas other women can't stand all this nonsense and just want to be taken roughly on the kitchen table without their explicit consent.

Horses for courses. Maybe you and your sister just like differnt types.

Both sound good to me.

where is CC's thread from yesterday?

Oh no, did this lovely kissing man turn into the nipple clamp bloke or am I getting mixed up?

yes he was one and the same wasn't he? that thread seems to have gone now though

Oh no he had such potential - I do hope CC is Ok - that sounded so rough almost like an assault.
I know it's not really done but, hugs to you CC.

hi - thanks.

i did just post an update on the third thread about this. put it seems its been pulled.

Im doing ok. im feeling less sore and achy now which is goo. although i do feel exhausted. i went to bed at about 8.45 last night and wish i was still sleeping now.

after posting for advice on some bdsm community forums ive had lots of support. several people have pm'ed me as well with support. the consesus is the man is an arse and out of order and probably does need reporting. and that even had i been aware of it being bdsm ( which i wasnt) that wouldnt have been normal behaviour for that anyway.

so its actually feeling more and more like abuse.

Im also starting to feel like it might not have been my fault. we had spoken over email and msn for a while, then on the phone for 2/3 weeks. then had a few dates. so everyone has said that really i had done all that i could have done and probably he had set out to decieve me. Added in the fact that he brought the nipple clamps with him.

knowing that he was decieving me the whole time makes me feel a bit sick as well really

I was a bit wary when i first read this thread to be honest, the kissing sounded creepy and over the top, and i thought it odd / rude that he opnly said he wanted to shag you. Id have run a mile at that point as these disrespectfull remarks are often a feeler to judge your response.

I couldnt really understand why posters encouraged to you to shag as though you were ever so lucky this guy after just a few dates and an over the top ridiculous kiss.

What happened sounds horrible op, hope you feel better soon.

So confidence Crisis..did it ever escalate or was that first date as hot as it got??

andreaaa it did escalate...into the now infamous nipple clamp thread which was then pulled
{no pun intended!!}

OMG, to say it escalated is an understatement.

For what its worth, ConfidenceCrisis/Bruised, I hope you're ok.

Yep. The sister was right all along.

he came to your house with a load of bdsm gear? On a first night together?? weird and nasty

Not weird. and if he pays this much attention to kissing... imagine the sex! Please come back and share all the details!

foureleven - read the whole thread! (and note it was started a while back)