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kissing - new man. Is this odd?

98 replies

confidencecrisis · 23/02/2010 19:23

Had a date on saturday that ended well with a wonderful kiss.

Well, i thought it was quite nice anyway. My sister, who after asking for all the gory details declared it was ' well weird'.

so, being a little bit bored and with nothing else to do i thought id ask what mn thought.

So, he pulled me close for the first kiss. Nice, no tongues. Just nice lips, firm, but not to hard. PUlled back, smiled and kissed again.

Gradually working up to a bit more tongue.

Nice.. very nice. No slobber and not feeling like i was kissing a washing machine, or anything else horrible.

He then proceded to kiss, my neck, ears, eyelids, forehead, top of head, top of chest. Not boobs. In random orders guiding my head gently so he could get at where he wanted, always coming back to my lips, then going elsewhere. then coming back.

But not rushed, not like he was trying to get anything else, like he was just enjoying the kissing.

I have never been kissed like that ever, i thought it was, just delicious... and am seeing him for more of the same ( i hope) soon.

But my sister said it was weird... and that he must be a weirdo to kiss my eyelids.

so, what do you all think?

OP posts:
aleene · 23/02/2010 20:21

Lucky you OP! Never mind your sister being jealous, half of MN will be jealous

Remotew · 23/02/2010 20:26

I have had a couple of lovers in the recent past who's first kisses were like magic. Tbh the sex was average whereas I've had better with an average kisser. Perhaps it's because I built up expectations in between for it to be mind blowing too.

He sounds fab anyway so enjoy your next date, don't rush into sex too soon, just keep enjoying those kisses.

BariatricObama · 23/02/2010 20:27

omg i really lol @ disenchanted cawing. dh is demanding to know wha tis so funny

AnyFucker · 23/02/2010 20:30

pmsl @ cawing like a raven !!

overmydeadbody · 23/02/2010 20:35

confidence if it worked for you then that is all that matters. Ignore your sister.

Sounds like he is happy to take his time, so like the others I agree that I bet he's good in bed!

crankytwanky · 23/02/2010 20:44

Just,

SheWillBeLoved · 23/02/2010 20:52

Bloody hell, I'd shag him just from reading the description of the kiss, never mind receiving the kiss enjoy!

PotPourri · 23/02/2010 20:56

sounds lovely! Am jealous. Your sister is weird if she doesn't think that sounds lovely

KerryMumbles · 23/02/2010 20:59

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Fizzfiend · 23/02/2010 22:36

I have a man in my life whose first kiss made my knees wobble. Two years later we're still kissing like teenagers and the sex is amazing. Sounds like you are on a fantastic voyage of discovery...enjoy!

Snorbs · 23/02/2010 23:16

There was a kiss like that near the end of Amelie. It was an incredibly tender and romantic moment.

dignified · 23/02/2010 23:47

Id love the kiss, but im not sure how id feel with him telling me he wanted to shag me.

Alibabaandthe40nappies · 24/02/2010 00:35

Ooh that sounds delicous, and your sister is definitely jealous.

thell · 24/02/2010 00:43

I miss the days of passionate kisses and a man who looked at you like he wanted to gaze at you forever.
Or who would stand protectively close on a busy train.
Or suddenly stop you as you were walking together down a street just to steal a kiss.

Lucky old you! Good on you!!

ChippingIn · 24/02/2010 00:44

Sounds lovely... I'd try really hard to keep him 'just kissing' for a while though...

Only because you (generally) get the best kisses out of them before they start shagging you - not from any prudish point of view!!

alypaly · 24/02/2010 00:49

just read your post,it sounds like something out of the movies. Is it real

confidencecrisis · 24/02/2010 07:14

yep - it is definatley real.

might have been more romantic if it wasnt in the street up against railings in the freezing cold though.

so, not perfect

lol

i am really looking forward to the weekend. ( and shall report back)

OP posts:
DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 24/02/2010 08:45

sis is jealous.

enjoy showing him other places to receive similar attention

Anniegetyourgun · 24/02/2010 08:51

I tell you what sounds odd to me. Telling your sister intimate details of snogs one has had. Perhaps it's just me, though, as I wouldn't want the fine details of my love life published (doubtless with embellishments) to the entire south-east of england, some of whom may give me funny looks next time we meet. She is a caring and affectionate soul, but discretion is not her middle name.

2rebecca · 24/02/2010 08:55

Agree with Anniegetyourgun.

akhems · 24/02/2010 08:56

ohh he sounds lovely!!!! enjoy

TweedyneeCole · 24/02/2010 08:57

bet he is going to be an amazing shag!

sparkybint · 24/02/2010 09:24

Was following your other thread on lone parents OP - perhaps you should change your name now! So glad you had such a great first date. He sounds like a wonderful kisser and it bodes very well....

Maybe your sister has just led a very sheltered life. And well done for going home on your own and nice that he put you in a cab too. Do keep us updated.

sparkybint · 24/02/2010 09:31

I've got a first date tomorrow with a guy who smokes but has told me he's been to his GP who's referred him to a smoking cessation clinic and he's determined to give up.

Normally smoking is an area of zero tolerance for me - I met him online and we chatted for a while before I re-read his profile and noticed that he smoked. If I'd read it in the first place, I wouldn't have gone near him! Everything else about him seems promising though and I'd like to give him a chance.

If we hit it off tomorrow should I say something about smoking being something that I just can't tolerate so he knows he's really got to do something if he wants to see me again? He looks really attractive but I just couldn't bear the thought of kissing a smoker - if he comes anywhere near me, I'll freeze! I can be quite direct and would probably say something along those lines. Is that out of order?

alypaly · 24/02/2010 09:37

no its not out of order....i hate smoking and i hardly ever kissed my BF. Cant stand the smell of his breath and clothes. It has become a rather platonic,symbiotic type of relationship and i cant stand it when he walks in the house after having a fag on the way to mine.
All his clothes smell...ewwwy

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