Sex uncomfortable due to size

[Justtoobig]

Namechanger alert. (Mouldies, booble plate, horses at the olympics, supersoaker, cube of poo)

My bf has put on weight, a fair bit and I'm finding sex uncomfortable. I don't mean penis size, I mean straddling him, either on top or below, and his weight hurts me.

We can't do doggy, he's quite short and it just doesn't work, and even spooning doesn't work, as his tummy gets in the way.

He knows he has put on weight, but is such a fussy eater and his trying to eat healthily is not the same as mine, and he has had health issues, so I don't want to put it plainly to him, but I really don't find having sex with him comfortable any more.

What can I do, other than not have sex?

Dump him?

god am quite disappointed I wanted to read about massive dong

i have to admit i'd make it clear sex is uncomfortable and leave it up to him to realise the weight is the issue and do something about it.

but then i'm cruel bitch.... i'm sure others will have kinder solutions

Has he suddenly put on lots of weight? Have you told him how you feel?

P.S loving your Mn regular credentials, but also slightly disappointed it wsn't a huge donger story too

Oh, sorry, he doesn't have a massive dong.

I don't really want to dump him either, but I don't enjoy sex any more because he is too fat.

He thinks that if you love someone you accept how they look, even if it changes, but the change is making sex uncomfortable, and if I'm honest, I don't fancy him, or the fact that he is not making a proper effort to lose weight.

get a penis extender

sorry will be serious

apparently PILLOWs are your friend and I know it says overweight people

OMG that site gives advice to 'get her juicing from the get-go'

how funny is that

I can't bring myself to read it

You can't do doggy cos he's too short and has a tummy? - have you seen Ron Jeremy? (boak alert))!

Can he stand, with you in a "lazy doggy" on the bed?
Can you put you legs up on his shoulders?
Reverse cowgirl?

Just how fat is he?

Where there is a will there is a way and I think there is more to this than his weight.

You need to ask yourself how you really feel about this man?

How about lots of oral?

Sex shouldn't be all about the cock anyway.

Eww!!

Smear a doughnut on your fanjo and he'll be well away!

There has to be more to it - lots of fat people have sex just fine, my BIL is a big bloke and he hasn't smothered my Sil yet!

Just tell him he's a fatty boom boom and they're ain't going to be any more sex till he's less repulsive. That should do it.

Or have sex with someone else.

I am not sure we are helping, although taking the piss is funny, however seriously, if you love the guy a chat might be in order.

If not, let him go and find someone else who doesn't mind the jellybelly

It's the law - Friday sex threads have got to turn into piss-takes.

How can anyone be too short for doggy?

Cool, I will make sure I am here to participate

no ones too short for a doggy

Thats hilarious!

Oh dear - perhaps she means too short for doggy, (as in length ).
I'm feeling very impish today, what a shame I have to go to work and miss all the Friday filth, not that there has been too much lately .

NSFW: Buy him one of these

No really, doggy doesn't work, and no, he doesn't have a teeny peeny.
He's always been on the large side, I think his tummy does get in the way but it didn't bother me before, but now he's big enough that all sex is uncomfortable, it does bother me.

I'm sure something could get me 'juicing from the get go', but currently, he is not it, when sex is pain, and not in a good way.

He knows he needs to be more healthy, but he is the type to consider a portion of carrot cake healthy, as it contains veg.

Foreplay/oral/his sex drive is not an issue, he's as keen as ever. I am not, and I hate to feel this way as I really love sex and used to with him, but not when it's hurting, and I do find him unattractive right now.