Am I compleatly mad or is this unfair??????

[thecloudhopper]

Background first-Me and my bf have been going out now for 4 years and have been looking to move in together etc but well my BF has what I would describe as major trust issues.

Tonight though realy got me and I have argued back usually I back down/keep the piece He rings me up saying where have you been? (I have been home all night but my mum has been on the phone for most of it.) I said at home why?

BF: well your mobile has been ringing and you dont get signal at yours why is that who have you been with?

ME: Nobody my phone is in the car and it must be in one of the few places I get signal.

My BF would not believe me and started being abuseive to this I put the phone down.

He rings back calling me all sorts, slag slut etc.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? STAY OR GO?

Hi all had a long chat with my BF layed all my cards on the table told him what I thought of him and we are on a break.

He actually cried something I have never ever seen him do.

Thanks for all the advice.

Cloudhopper: Well done! Great!
Now you need to be careful for a little while as it is possible that this man (as abusers often do) will begin to harass and stalk you. Remember that if he does, he can be made to stop and if he does anything frightening such as make threats, damage property or attempt to assault you he can be arrested, charged and locked up.
I'm not trying to scare you more reminging you and anyone else dealing with a knobber like this) that abusive men are NOT ALLOWED to own and control other people. They can be made to Go Away and never bother you again.

When are you planning on going back to him?