MILismad, I just want to add my voice to the ones above. It makes me sad to do it. When you'll read this, you probably had a nice Sunday and all. But there's going to be that doubt inside you, isn't there, making you a little bit more nervous every time?
A few hours ago, you wrote:
"he has just txt me to say
'im havin a bit of dinner so deal with it'
and so i rang him and he said
'just because youre pregnant doesnt mean you can treat me like a dick headd and tell me to come home you f*king Cnt'
all this because i told him i am lonely and i need him."
Babe, nobody is OK to talk to you like this, ever
You wouldn't accept it from a colleague, a boss, a friend or even a stranger. You certainly shouldn't be sharing your life with someone who behaves like that towards you
From the other things you've posted, it looks like he thinks you're his mum. I feel sorry for her!!!
It's such a bummer that this has happened while you're pregnant - but, trust me, that boy is NOT going to turn into an ideal dad after DC2 is born! Get shot now, if not sooner.
Tough about the money, but that's why we have a benefits system
If you have a joint account, move all the money out of it NOW, into another account that only you can sign. Make an appointment with the CAB to find out your rights (and get help claiming extra money). It's unlikely you'll lose your house.
Oops, I left this reply half-written for so long, you've already said he is binned. You did the right thing. Go you!
And, good luck Get your friends around you; don't be afraid to ask for any help you need. People will understand. You're right, you know! x