My best friends husband

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y husband and I went round to a friend and her husbands for dinner last night. I made friends with the wife initially and the our husbands became friends.

We all get on really well and even went on holiday last year which was great. Anyway last night he tried to kiss me whilst his wife was putting the children to bed and my husband was in the loo. It came from nowhere, and i was shocked but somehow not surprised. I said no obviously but he did make contact with my lips as he was holding me firm whilst i was saying no.

I am totally shocked and i feel awful and guilty. I obvs can't talk to my h as he is good friends with this guy. This would devastate him. I just feel so awful for his wife, she is lovely and although they have their issues she really loves her husband. She has also told me that he would never be unfaithful to her. I didn't think he would either but now am not so sure!

So should i tell her or my husband or try desperately to forget about it and put it down to too much wine!

yep agreed, not telling her, although i really don;t think she knows, she has said many times he would never stray etc etc. Will speak to him personally through the week, ugh.

lh, I believe about a year

I'd tell your DH. And your friend. Maybe he's ill and this is a symptom of his lack of understanding social boundaries

Or he could just be a horrid perv.

And def not swingers!

Not like it is a longstanding friendship then, I would try and fizzle this out, I had to do it to an old school friend who made increasing attempts on my DH. He couldn't see it but it was obvious. I would tell your DH too don't tell her, opens up bigger can of worms. At least if you and DH are on same side you can slowly fizzle it out. If you want to of course.

Tell your husband.

Yeah, tell your husband and explain the gap as you being in shock. Really, tell your husband.

Tell your DH.
How can you want him to be friends with a man who tries to snog his wife when his back is turned?
Your marriage is the paramount relationship here, not that of two blokes who get on well.

Definitely, tell your husband!!

That's good to hear.

good outcome

you are probably glad you didn't go running straight to your female friend to tell tales