Would you turn and run from this??

[FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite]

Met a bloke about 6 weeks ago, he seems really nice, we have alot in common, he's great company, looking for the same things, good looking but:

He's had ex's that have really battered him, one that stole his money, some stalkers (apparantly). He comes across as a sweet bloke but I'm in 2 minds. We had a chat yesterday, he said he is interested in me/I'm fantastic etc but we've agreed to be friends (then he flirts with me (alot) ), he's said he doesn't want to get into a relationship with me and loose me or fall out and never see me again. He's on my FB account, he was honest and has said he's joined a section where he can meet people, he's looking for someone who wants the same as him . It's not a serious thing that we have, not kissed, chat every night, spend the odd day together, I have been avoiding him since yesterday, what would you do? I'm confused with all the mixed messages I get from him.

[Katiekitty]

So, does he think that you're always around for him?

If you've avoided him since yesterday and you've not spoken to him tonight, he is now asking what's up - does he think you haven't got other things to do? Let him wonder about you. He's had ample time to ask you questions!

Have you mentioned at any time the mixed messages he gives are very confusing?

[Clary]

fluffy sorry this is not working out but I have to say it (he) doesn't sound promising.

He either wants to be in a relationship with you or, erm, not!

What else are you upset about? Can we help?

[FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite]

I think we're in the routine of chatting online!! He think's he's done something wrong.

It's OK clary

[Clary]

well you know where we are babes (tho I must get some ironing done )

[FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite]

It's OK. I frightened myself by looking at some drug side effects.

[SolidGoldBrass]

He's a whanger. Forget it. He sounds like one of these whiny losers who never get anywhere with anything and boohoo, it's always someone else's fault. He is Too Fragile for this Wicked World and no one really understands him, waaaahhh! IE most women who are not completely desperate rapidly pick up on his total self absorption and depart.
I would imagine he is cute in a pretty puppy-boy way and that's why he can get away with this wounded-little-doggy act. Someone should possibly tell him it will stop working when he gets a bit older, porks out and loses his lovely floppy hair.

[FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite]

Thanks Solid!!

[NewLeaseofLife]

Sounds like my ex. Def dump him!

[FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite]

[Katiekitty]

Hey Fluffy, how's things? How did the dreaded coach trip on Sunday go?

[overmydeadbody]

I would run from it.

He sounds like a time waster to me.

[FluffySaysTheDailyMailsShite]

It wasn't too bad.
I had to take ds in on Saturday, we spent ages talking. He's said again that he's not sure if he's going to stay here and he doesn't want to upset me if he goes home. He wants to take ds and I out for a meal. I don't know, he tries so hard sometimes, then others...