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Boyfriend 'jealous' of his nephew and generally rude to his family, wwyd?

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noIDforthis · 07/09/2009 11:27

regularish but have namchanged for this

hae been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we don't live together, have no children either for some background

was at his mothers yesterday, where he lives, and he was generally rude to his family, doesn't make them a drink when he makes himself one, refuses to do his own washing or ironing, doesn't pay housekeeping. He is great to me though and will do everything for me, but has so little respect for his mum and dad.

His younger sister then came round with her 2yo who was ill with sickness and diarreah (sp!), which I also had. We spent a few mins trying to work out if we had eaten the same thing to see if we could work out where it had come from. Boyfriend then shouts 'I've had enough of this, nobody gave a shit when I was ill, shut up about it!'. His birthday is near the babys, and he was very jealous when the baby was born that no one paid any attention to his birthday. Writing this down he sounds like a spoilt brat, I had to leave his house last night as I was so annoyed by this, I didn't mention it, just said i didn't feel well.I really don't know where to go from here,I need to speak to him about it, but will he ever change?!

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AnAuntieNotAMum · 09/09/2009 01:10

Guess they went on holiday?

Also to say, "big gesture" presents to his parents is not a good sign either. Rather than doing small things regularly for them, sounds like he is doing the "big gesture" from time to time to make himself feel good about himself.

YorkshireRose · 09/09/2009 12:48

Really hope they didn't. OP is running the risk of letting this loser sweet-talk her into changing her mind.

Personally, would rather swallow nails than go on holiday with someone I had just decided to dump. Did it once - was a BIG mistake.

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