addicted to orgasms...

[orgjunkie]

i don't even know if this is a problem or not but my sex drive has gone out of control. I feel like i'm addicted to orgasms...it's all I can think about all the time.

I have 2 small kids, very very skint, stressed upto eyeballs but I just can't stop masterbating and when I'm not doing it, I'm figuring out my next opportunity.

I just feel like it's the only way I can relax, feel good about myself, get to sleep, calm down etc etc.

I'm giving myself orgasms upto 4 times a day, everyday!!

am getting a bit worried about myself, why can't i just be satisfied with one every now and then like everyone else.

I feel like some crazy teenage boy, not a 35yr old mother of two!

well its not doing you any actual harm is it?

well suppose not, but i'm doing stuff like putting kids in front of tele and locking myself in bathroom with porn, ignoring phone calls and people at the door cos I just HAVE to have an orgasm....that's awful isn't it?

blimey.

funny that....the porn thing!! what kind of porn then??

more of a male thing,porn.....

Hmmm you feel like a teenage boy

Its not looking good really is it OP?

not porn really...erotic fiction

Don't stress about it I've had peaks and troughs with my sex drive..so long as it's not affecting other parts of your life it's ok to have a gulity pleasure..plus it's free and has health benefits

Hmm. ON the one hand, repeated masturbation will not make your foof fall off or anything (unless you are using some very unsafe methods of self-pleasuring like diddling yourself with a chainsaw).
ON the other hand, any behaviour which is becoming compulsive might be a sign of problems, whether it's wanking, handwashing or saying prayers. Have you recently had more stress added to your life?

Why arn't you in the bathroom now? you obviously have some free time?

i am honestly NOT a teenage boy messing about. I'm a woman with an out of control sex drive.

Forget it...knew people wouldn't understand

Weeel it depends how long you take TBH

If it takes you 30 mins x 4 each day then its clearly a problem (and putting your children in front of a tv isn;t that bad but 2hrs is Not Good)

OP you must realise that your OP would get a few

MN's been weird (er) lately

30mins being an average

If you're a supersonic 5 mins then I wouldn't consider it a problem [lucky cow]

If you're not a troll....
Then I think you're probably bored, looking for comfort, excitment etc.

It's like over eating, people become 'addictde' to tihe the sensual pleasure and the satisfaction it gives, and then overindulge it.

It's entirely possible, and likley that this type of obbsessive sexual behaviour would occur in a middle aged women. Why wouldn't it?

Try to think of something else enjoyable you could replace masturbting with (not eating though) maybe mumsnet? But that is very addivtibe too......

mrsB - you will be up for a flaming as many 35 year olds do not consider themselves Middle Aged

thanks, i have been under loads of extra stress and emotional pressure lately...maybe that's it.

God you should go for it, life is short. Keeping on wanking.

keep

Oh gawd, I didn't think of that!!

and I'm 39 and do not consider myself middle aged!

Sorry Orgjunkie (really terrible if apt name) I think I was just trying to imply that this does not necessarily have to be a teenage boys problem and could well be a problem of a normal 30something mother.

OJ, may be just tyr to cut it down, replace it with soemthing else during the day. Reassure yourself you're not a weirdo and I'm sure this phase will pass.

Remember this. had lost my ironing board. God life was carefree frank and boring back then.

mrsB - i am 44 and not middle aged either!

I'm 44 and I am categorically not middle-aged! I am old. So there.

Cyndi Lauper has a view on this that may help.

I am a ver ver young 44, almost 24 really