A so called 'friend' is a bit peculiar around my DH.
She divorced last year and I think came out of an abusive relationship. She has one child but would have liked more. My DH is quite a caring sort of chap and quite amiable generally, and I am getting increasingly spooked by her behaviour around him.
When he is around she talks a lot to him and seems to get on with him well. No problem there. However, yesterday we were at an event and once he had arrived (late), chatted to us and then gone off to get food, she became quite strange with me - quite distracted and non-communicative, having been fine prior to that. She has in the past been so friendly that when we went as a group to see a show, he had to turn his back on her (sitting round circular table) to get her to shut up so he could watch show. She is often making comments about how tired he looks 'poor My Bottyspottom looks so tired'. 'Poor Mr Bottyspottom travels so much he must be exhausted type stuff'. As it happens Mr Bottyspottom has for the last year had several nights away each week in a lovely hotel with nice food brought to him, meals in local restaurants and gentle swimming before supper. Meanwhile I had a new baby and two others and was getting b*gger all sleep. Yesterday she leapt up when he arrived and rushed to get him a drink.
Part of me thinks I am being paranoid and part of me (the bigger part, actually), thinks 'piss off and let me nurture my own husband please'.
Thankfully she is not a good friend, but is one a a little group I have recently been part of.
What would you do? I trust DH and I also think that if he was going to be unfaithful to me, it wouldn't be with her (he doesn't like some of her traits).